What does this libra want?

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CancVenusGem
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I have a major libra problem...There is this libra guy that I like ( venus in scorpio and moon in capricorn), he goes cold when I reveal my feelings to him...and begin to chase after me when I ignore him.. He even said that he loved me..I told him stop playing games with me, I really dont wanna be one of ur girls ( he flirts with everyone, and when they get interested, he says that he is not interested in a relationship) and he said later sorry for making me believe that he liked me, that he just joked about everything, and told me later on that I made him depressed, cause I called him a player ( I only said it as a joke) ... He used to call me baby, honey.... Everytime he sees me, he acts all shy... Now tell me does he like me or not? If he is, than why is he saying that he dont?
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CancVenusGem
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I am so glad that everyone is agree with me, he is an ass... But sometimes he seems so sincere.. He does everything I like,I like boys with alot of hair, and he hasnt cut his hair since I told him I do... He had the same profile picture for 8 months, just because I told him that I love that picture. We live in different cities, and he drove all the way to celebrate new year with me.. He doesnt flirt with other girls in front of me, there could be many girls in the crowd, but he will still be looking at me.. He hasnt been involved with anyone for 5 years now... He told me that he is afraid of getting hurt and that he must love him self to love someone else... He had a bad relationship before, It took him two years to get over her... maybe thats why..
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little_sparrow
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Time for some tough sparrow love.

Honey, who cares if he got hurt before? How is that YOUR problem?

I think you have got yourself so wrapped up in trying to figure out what is going on, that you have divorced yourself from what you want and need. What is it YOU want? Is this making YOU happy? What is it YOU need to be happy?

See what I did there? I took the focus of him and made this all about YOU, which is what it should be about.

I highly suspect, if you did that, you would see what you really want. I highly doubt it won't be a head case, in another city, who may or may not be sleeping with other women and hasn't moved the relationship forward in 5 months.

I think it is time to be honest with yourself about your needs and let him go.


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CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

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Well, He is pursuing a friend of mine now...He has been close with her for a while now...He tells her everything, he comfort her...calls her everyday,sends goodnight messages...these are the things he never did for me...Maybe he was in love with her allt his time ( It didnt stop him from flirting with me...hahaha, and said to me that she was like a sister for him..eww, he disgust me) Anyway, are these true libra traits? I love libras, But I dont like the way he behaves..If every libra men are like this,then I must say NOT THANKS 🙂