run from a relationsip ? lots of things .A lack of spark and attraction or if a girl is too cold and boring,if we have to do all the chasing , also lame unimaginitive sex will make us flee. On the flipside we can't stand constant flighting ,nagging and harassment, really loud people. Also we have the reputation of moving on if we find a sweeter, sexier and classy lady. We're picky when if comes to good looks !
what would maske me run someone who has a drug or alcohol problem someone who argues for little or no reason someone who doesnt look after themselves physically and emotionally I prefer a woman who can act like a woman and not swear a lot or be loud I,ll run from someone with low self esteem. Someone who is way to clingy
those are just off the top of my head after working anight shift
this one libra guy i know recently broke up with his gf of 2 and a half years because she was always bitching about something and being really negative. he said he couldn't stand her gloomy energy anymore. this got me thinking because as a libra, i also noticed that i cannot stand people who always have something negative to say about everything. nobody likes a downer.
libras like upbeat people. we're very sensitive to the vibes around us.
if you emotionally/sexually cheat, lie or change your mind about major agreements, or pull up in a moving van and empty my house, I will run. Now, If you show up at my new house wearing a mini-skirt and boots...you may get me back for a little while. 😉
The negativity thing is a big one. Even if things aren't going my way I am optimistic. Frequent complaining about life is just draining. Figure out the problem, do what you can, then just let it be. It will get better.
I have to be into someone too, there's no explaining this one really. But if I ain't feeling you and you come on too strong I'm out.
Lying is also a biggie for me. I have found that people like to tell "white lies" often thinking they are protecting feelings or some shit. Let me tell you, for me that is counter productive. I think all the time about everything. Little lies will surface through inconsistency and then I will wonder what else is a lie. Even if it is bad, tell me the truth. At least then we all know what is up.
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Emotionally shallow. I control my emotions well but I have tons of them. I will share them too and expect the same. Maybe its just that I don't like not knowing... anything. I want to know what is going on in my friends worlds, in a relationship even more so. What happened, how did it make you feel? That's really how you get to know someone right? Its not the things that happen to you, its how you let them affect you.
"..i have spent most of my money on women and wine..the rest of it i just wasted.."
Some Libra's (me for example)can burn through some serious cash..The Wait staff loves me. Want a Libra to run..just diss the waiter a few times.
I have never had a fight over money..I keep hearing money and bills are what makes people run from relationships the most. Not for me. It's all about ideals (and physical attraction, of course). I'll give you everything, just don't steal it from me.
I'd prefer answers from the guys as opposed to speculation from girls, but they can feel free to answer as well.