Libra guy initiated a breakup

Hi.. Everyone.. I need helps.. with experiences out there to help me out of my misery.. 😢 im really shaken and heartbroken.. everything around me seems to clash on me. *sob Give me advices and support.. 😢

im a leo girl (24 years old) and i just broke up with my libra bf (24 years old) 2 days ago. let me start talking about both of us. we were secondary school classmates and many years later, we met again and started to date 2 years ago.. i would say the feeling is very special and different. 'Trust' between us was never an issue, we wont and never once cheated on each other and stuffs.. there is a special connection with him. i never been so comfortable with a guy. never.. even my ex-s. we started our r/s when he is serving his national service. so which means we see each other only twice a week but love is still strong and continue to grow well.

i thought(hoping) and believe our r/s will work out and we will the e last love for each other with happy ending. Right after his national service, his parents want him to go overseas study. it was hard for us but we continue to stay together and believe we will overcome everything. nothing is going to change. Long distance r/s is gonna b ok.

but things started to change. he began to less text me and stuffs. he is very stress and pressured coping school and (some) friend issues. i tried my best to hold on tight. but i feel very sad that we are not communicating much anymore. we fought a few times over text msges. i cant handle my emotional part and request a break up. He agreed. but then, after awhile, we got back agn bcos we still love each other and wanna try to work things better for us.

Now, just 2 days ago.. we had a serious break up. he initiated the break up. he became very frank and honest with me. He said: long distance relationship is not for him. i am a wonderful gf but im not the right ideal girl for him and see no future with me, things are never the same between us like the past and feeling has changed and slowly fade away for me and our r/s. we cannot connect anymore and we have different views and frequency. Ever since he left for overseas study, he realised his priorities changed. His family, school, friends and future career plans is more important now.

so i am opt out of his life. i was badly hurted with his words. i lost to everything he has listed.

i don know if he is trying to console. he said again: treat it as a short break for us

to be contd...

and see if fate and destiny will bring us back in future again. but it seems so hard to accept what he says. What can i do? i really love him. should i move on? he still hv 1.5yrs completing his studies.

suddenly.. everything change. his determination and firmness seems strong. this really means it over for us right?

please give me advices and supports. 😢

Well. You know Libra man. They are kind of hard to keep.
The more you show him that youre attached to him worse it will be.
Try to act as if you have moved on. Dont be emotional with him. Dont chatt him too often. if he really has no feelings for you then it will be useless, because he will try to get rid for oyu if you annoy. Im myself Libra.
and we Libras sometimes do like unpredictable thigns. So he may come back to you. Just wait. And be patient.
but once again i say there is no garancy. Because Libra is unpredictable.

and.. Btw Im heart broken myself. From Leo between 😄
and from long distance relationship as well.
So if you feel like talkiing. and Whining. You can add me on skype.
Porcelainherzen ..

Thanks so much. I don know what to do with my emotional part. I know they are unpredictable. I will heed ur advice and continue my life. I cried so much cos it pain so much from e memories we had. Everywhere has our memory. When I ask him do u love me? He kept saying: things has changed. He want me to move on and hv e chance to meet better guy becos I deserve better. I don wan to hear this. It's so heart breaking. He say he cares about my being and don wan to hurt me deeper cos things will nv work out for us. Every good words he say about me sound like consoling me to shake me away. I hv been waiting for him since his national service to his overseas studies for his return to see him again. He doesn't wan me to wait for him anymore, wasting my youth. But i simply can't accept everything he says.

Why am I the one being opt out. Sob* no matter how I persuade him and stuffs. He is very determined and firm to let me go.

Anyway.. I'm so heartbroken that I blocked his facebook. An
I doing the right thing, blocking him?? I can't bear to see any sign of him. I nv intent to contact him anymore. I can't though I miss him much. That very day, I asked him to delete away my number. He forcefully reject to. He wants to be friend with me in future. I was like wth! Don contact me if u really letting me go. U will make me suffer more. I don wan to be friends with him.

Den again, he contradict and confuse me! when he wants to me friend with me/ mayb we will be tgt back in future/ yet, he emphazise see no future with me and I'm not e girl he wants!
I really tortured emotionally.

I do wish things will work out for us. Having a future life together. But yet, I kinda feel that we will never be back tgt again. 😢

okey do you know what I think?
Hes selfish. Well and it doesnt have to do with astrology ..
and I know you have cried alot and suffered alot. and still are. Im in the same condition right now...
I loved Leo man for 4 years. 1 we were friends. 2 together. then for 1 year. he disappeared. simply saying that IM obsessed. like week ago he came beg. begging for forgivness saying taht he lvoes me. I kinda rejected him at first. But then I accepted. ;D and when I accepted he says that he doesnt know. And yesterday he said that theres no chance taht he will have feelings for me.
shortly. just block him. And when he calls dont answer. dont let him show your weakness. its hard I know but dont...
Like this theres more chance that he willcome back. Dont be stupid and dont hang on him likeI did. dont.
I Myself amnt strong enough to delete him.
but I just hope that. His cold altitude will make me stop loving him. because i blokc him Ill still have hope. hope that something can be changed. P.s dont you have skype?

I deleted it. Cos it's e contact between my libra bf(ex now) and me. I wan to hv no way of relating to him. I deleted his overseas and local no. I guess I'm tryin to get tough? But I need get over,my friend. I will force myself to. Let e future decide.

He found someone else and doesn't want to be tied down to a LDR.

Either way, do your best to separate yourself from him.

Btw, he's full of shit when he says he wants to be friends. My ex said the same bs and he's treated me like anything but.

Might I add, the whole "let's be friends" is a bs line from men generally, not just Libra men. It's their way of lessening the blow and making themselves feel better about being an ass.

I hv my doubts if he is seeing someone else. But I trust him. He didnt cheat on me. If its a cheating case, I won't be so upset. I kinda opposite reaction of a cheat r/s. I hv my principle. If he really cheat on me, ever true, I will really dump this r/s and discriminate him with no longing and affection. Cheating is against my principle. He knows very well about this.

I really upset regards that I'm not even worth e same level with frens or family. I below them.. I'm e least priorities. I lost totally.

He changed so much that i so afraid of him now. His determination and firmness to push me away. He told me overseas studies has made changes to him. He felt carefree and very independent. He likes being carefree and no restriction. I guess u're right . He don't want to b tie dwn.

Libra to me is scary.. But agn, at times, I will think if he will think of me or misses me. I understood that his love for me I guess is no more. He doesn't love me anymore. The word feeling faded and changed can spike ur heart so deep that u feel like ur heart stop beating for a moment.

😢((

How could a guy say that he see no future with u and u're not e right girl. He must have weighed everything before saying this right? Sob** i need to stop thinkin of e possibility of being tgt anymore. I'm torturing myself. It meant so much that I worth nth to him and unnessesary or unimportant to him. I feel like a loser in this r/s. i lost my battle.

E reason y I wouldn't let go and wish we will nv come to this state is bcos I don wan to miss anything in his life. He gt 1.5yrs more to complete his studies, many things can happen. I wish I'm thr to b involved and support him. Always let him know that I'll b ard for him at his down times. Also, I fear. I fear he found someone else. That person worth better than me bcos she involved his worse times. In this case, we will nv b tgt again. Not even a chance.

I'm goin crazy with all this thoughts. seriously.

I wish I hv a memory lost for the period we were together. So that i would feel so much pain and go thru torturing. 😢 *sob sob sob

*wont feel

Can Leo women ever NOT write multiple, short posts and instead put it all in one or two??

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Can Leo women ever NOT write multiple, short posts and instead put it all in one or two??

Lmao!!

It's a trend I've noticed with the Leos who come to the Libra forum. They write snippets in multiple, consecutive posts... for like 60 posts.