what to do with this nice libra

Sorry that was long..any input will help am confused. Thanks

Sorry that was long..any input will help am confused. Thanks

I(libra) live in Belgium and my best friend ( aquarius ) started talking online trough a music download program (soulseek) to this girl (gemini) from Chile about 4 years ago and they are still together..

He did the first step , going to Chile and lived with her for 2 months.
Half a year later she came to Belgium for 3 months.
Well this has now become a routine. They have really so much fun together and eventually the plan is when they both finished there studies she is gonna move over her cause you can make a lot more money in Belgium.

I suggest if you guyz really connect , just go for it !

About why you're libra turned cold :

" Then he told me when I come to europe he will propose to me and invited me to his brothers wedding..he came on really strong..and that all confused me a bit..so I remained aloof and I took all he said as a joke..then for several days I stopped talking to him, I was confused I think he got mad, though he did not admit it.. "

Just tell him why you did not talk to him , that you were confused because it came on so strong ( and that your love is real blabla.. ) cause i think this changed it for him.

Hi leokitten and upheaval.. That's something to think about, thanks.

I wanted to go there but its not as easy as it sounds. I have lot to take care here, but yes maybe ill come visit.

Upheaval when u said, that changed it for him, does that mean he doesn't love me anymore? Or he's just holding his heart or something..?
Thanks

I personally think the guy is full of it.

"Upheaval when u said, that changed it for him, does that mean he doesn't love me anymore? Or he's just holding his heart or something..?
Thanks"

Well it sounded like everything was perfect but then you pulled back leaving him thinking wtf ?

I dont think anybody could really answer that..you need to observe him more to make up your own mind....who knows what goes on in any mans mind?? LOL.

If he disappears for days, weeks, months? you'll have your answer....are you prepared to live like that? coz from personal experience, and I know several Libra males now, they all do it even when they have everything in place, their lives together...

Mine was and is still a classic disappearing act....not intentionally Im sure but its just the way they are...take it or leave it, they won't allow you not to take it 😛

whew I wen't through three paras > you guys should have atleast had some sex dam you guys are too grown and your post sounds childish.

"do you guys think he likes me"? wtf kind of question is that!?

If somebody asks 'how do u make a scrambled egg? Then somebody should be able to teach that stupid person how to make a scrambled egg...

Not ask why do u not know how to make a scrambled egg?

I still don't know how to make a scrambled egg.

Anyway..mr. Trice nice libra told me..that's he's not crazy about me, and keeps things friendly and also told me that he's told he's friends he's not available because I own his heart..arg....

Now, the scrambled egg?

Joe? Have sex? As u know we r very far away..if he could extend his pns here.. maybe.

Chatz we r online people so..the dissapearing act is not that much..in fact when he will not be able to chatz he tells me, he will leave for blabla and will be back on blabla and he's always back when he says he will. He pulled back though when we both had confusions but he said he will go away for a bit and then he was back the day he set to come back.

My only problem is that we speak too much about love which I always believe and he will always take it back, hurting me..and if one jokes one or 2 times..its fine..but if a jokes been going on for 1.5 yrs now its not a joke anymore. Now he admitted he has feelings for me, but is not sure if its love or not and wanted to know so he's taking he's time...meanwhile after knowing that..he could tell me I am the one etc and doesn't mean it..I lost something..feelings or trust I don't know..and I couldn't get it back to normal..I don't know what to do..part of me wants to go away, and part of me wants to stay..but maybe I'll just stop following my heart and do what's right to do..and YES maybe maybe i am a bit childish that's why im asking for advice here etc. Not to be judge but to be helped.

He's trying to confuse you as a reflection of his confused feelings inside.
When you're not sure, CONFUSE! so they think its them. Its a good tactic, usually used by libra in the dating game. What it really means is this: Not ready, not sure about advancing.

The best way to move it forward is through TRUTH. Confusion needs enlightenment. Who knows some shield is blocking a correct decision. Be honest, direct and always do things in a spirit of goodwill, and the bulb of enlightenment will strike. truth brings things forward - deep truth does, and be prepared not to cling on if both of you realise you're not meant for each other.

Its so much easier speaking across the internet, so use the tool in your favour.
Luck!