When?

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Posted by OldLibra
I think about her, her moves, her thoughts every moment in life. I think of ways to make things she would want to happen. I feel worried when I don't hear from her as often and I feel hurt when she is sick.

That's when I realize how much I love her
awww, that is so sweet - that is how my new Libra man friend is and I find it endearing ...
So....

When is this finally going to be official? 😄

You always add friend at the end......
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lol "official" as in ? ... I do say that don't I - lol - and when I was telling my son about another friend of mine who was actually just a friend he said wait wait hold up - you say friend for everybody so I'm a little confused here - lol - and I said oh not that kind of a friend - I only have one of those ... lol

I guess saying "boyfriend" at my age sounds very strange- so what should I say "manfriend" or what - help ? I don't even really know lol ... we are exclusively seeing each other if that makes it "official"
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Posted by OldLibra
I think about her, her moves, her thoughts every moment in life. I think of ways to make things she would want to happen. I feel worried when I don't hear from her as often and I feel hurt when she is sick.

That's when I realize how much I love her
awww, that is so sweet - that is how my new Libra man friend is and I find it endearing ...
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I think anyone in love will be that way, regardless of their zodiac sign
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I just wanna know how do you libra men know when you are in love?

My boyfriend said he'll propose to me soon... and I didn't see it coming, like at all x] I love him but I never realized when he fell in love with me. Maybe I'm dense. Any answers?

(his moon is in taurus

virgo venus

scoprio mars)
Ummmm... Is it just me, or your boyfriend telling you he is going to propose to you soon IS the proposal? And you have already said yes, by way of not protesting when he said he is going to propose soon.

Just saying. Because this kind of thing sounds a lot like he isn't sure whether you would say yes and whether it is the right thing to do. Seems like he says that to you so you quit nagging him about it. Smells like communication and trust issues to me, the two cornerstones of marriage.

Are you sure you guys are ready to get hitched?
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Posted by OldLibra
I think about her, her moves, her thoughts every moment in life. I think of ways to make things she would want to happen. I feel worried when I don't hear from her as often and I feel hurt when she is sick.

That's when I realize how much I love her
awww, that is so sweet - that is how my new Libra man friend is and I find it endearing ...
So....

When is this finally going to be official? 😄

You always add friend at the end......
lol "official" as in ? ... I do say that don't I - lol - and when I was telling my son about another friend of mine who was actually just a friend he said wait wait hold up - you say friend for everybody so I'm a little confused here - lol - and I said oh not that kind of a friend - I only have one of those ... lol

I guess saying "boyfriend" at my age sounds very strange- so what should I say "manfriend" or what - help ? I don't even really know lol ... we are exclusively seeing each other if that makes it "official"
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The word "boyfriend" has nothing to do with age. It describes a romantic relationship and communicates that it is not so serious yet.

Words to describe romantic relationships as they evolve:

- boyfriend (seeing each other exclusively, in love)

- companion (same as boyfriend but with plans for the future)

- partner (same as companion but living together, making decisions together and having a joint bank account)

- husband (same as partner but married, thus legally responsible for each other)

I think your choice of vocabulary and your feeling uneasy about 'boyfriend' are telling. Up to you to figure out what they are telling of.

A little more than a year to me could not be further along than companion. Seems to me you are skipping not one but two steps of the process...

Not my intention to make you doubt your decision. Just saying you might not have a solid foundation to build a marriage on. Unless you are okay with things falling apart.