@Mayygoo
9 YearsTaurus
How do Libra men show they love you?
How Can You Tell If a Libra Man Likes You?
Many people notice Libra men are charming and attentive at first, which can make it hard to tell if it’s real interest or just their personality. Some show interest through constant texting or attention, while others give mixed signals or pull back. The confusion usually comes from how friendly they are with everyone. It often takes consistency to tell if he actually likes you.
Signs a Libra likes you
Takes the initiative
Libras don’t usually initiate conversations. The reasons being, they might be unsure of the reaction of the particular girl/boy in interest or they’re still sizing you up from a distance. This is just one of the major traits of a Libra, indecision.
But if a conversation does initiate, it can be pretty obvious soon enough if they like you or not. They’ll usually be really sweet and compliment you on things they’ve been noticing about you, during their observations.
An important thing to note is to always give them some breathing space. Try not to be too receptive. Make it known to Libra that you do like them but also make them work for it. They’ll go all the way, if they really do like you.
Passivity and Eye Contact
Once committed Libras are very loyal; but until committed they can stay in indecision for some time. You may have to stay friends and be prepared to wait. If Libra is interested, their eye contact will be good, and they will have lots of ideas and be a bright spark with lots of things to say. If they are not interested they will be very passive.
Tell me about your Life
Libras are friendly/flirtatious with everyone. Being that they’re naturally curious, they will show interest in you by digging into your personal life. If Libra is focused on getting to know you on a personal and even deep level they like you. As they are so pure, you may see it in their eyes, they wouldn’t be able to hide it.
DANGER BEWARE
Despite all the lovely information I have presented, one must not forget Libras are players! They are so sweet one day, but when they know the girl/boy is falling for them, their sweetness dissolves. It’s like think they want all the girls/boys to fall for them, and when they achieve that, their ego has been bolstered
Keep them begging for MORE
Show them interest one day, and than be completely indifferent the next day. You wanna know why? Because Libras very rarely are challenged, therefore they’ll be completely intrigued. Make sure you keep a Libra hanging on your every word.
I also think that part of the reason Libras have a reputation as being players is that deep down they really don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, and so they try to please everyone and they never seem to learn that if you don’t like someone it’s okay to say “no” instead of leading them on. I think a Libra worries more about rejecting someone outright than the harm they are doing by leading someone on when they don’t feel the same way.
I think my Libra friend doesn't want to be straightforward in telling me he is no longer interested. When I confronted him, he says its not me he's just going through something. He doesn't have to lead me on. We've only been reacquainted for a few months. Im not that invested even though the friendship seemed promising.
this was really good thank you!
Posted by miimii
I think my Libra friend doesn't want to be straightforward in telling me he is no longer interested. When I confronted him, he says its not me he's just going through something. He doesn't have to lead me on. We've only been reacquainted for a few months. Im not that invested even though the friendship seemed promising.
Well maybe, but I have sincerely been in love with someone and just needed space to balance the scales and I returned. I am not trying to tell you to stay in a toxic situation but sometimes a little understanding and patience go a long way.
Posted by AriesLove
Consistency, opening up and sharing personal information with you about their life. Concerned about your personal life. Bringing you around their space and the people they love.Planning things with you now, later, next year and so on. Showing you off. Supporting you bettering yourself even at their expense. Talk about you to everyone.
They require the very minimal in return for all their admiration for you. Just appreciation and respect.
But this really could apply to any person in love.
Damn yep sounds right to me.
Posted by AriesLove
Consistency, opening up and sharing personal information with you about their life. Concerned about your personal life. Bringing you around their space and the people they love.Planning things with you now, later, next year and so on. Showing you off. Supporting you bettering yourself even at their expense. Talk about you to everyone.
They require the very minimal in return for all their admiration for you. Just appreciation and respect.
But this really could apply to any person in love.
You are spot on ! I'm getting closer to a libra guy and your description matches his behaviour so far .
A libra man has been flirting with me at work for a while . I wouldn't say that he loves me , but he has told me ( last night ) that he "likes me a lot", and that he wants to get to know me better , so he asked me out on a date. He's shared personal information , he shows interest in my life , always compliments me on how good I look and smell and told me last night that he loves the fact that I'm not " only hot but also a nice person ". I usually catch him staring at me and he's always very warm and smiles/laughs a lot...
Well he definitely got my attention now . Let's see what happens from now on ...
Posted by AriesLove
Consistency, opening up and sharing personal information with you about their life. Concerned about your personal life. Bringing you around their space and the people they love.Planning things with you now, later, next year and so on. Showing you off. Supporting you bettering yourself even at their expense. Talk about you to everyone.
They require the very minimal in return for all their admiration for you. Just appreciation and respect.
But this really could apply to any person in love.
Sounds like my Libra when he is being a good Libra!
Posted by AriesLove
Consistency, opening up and sharing personal information with you about their life. Concerned about your personal life. Bringing you around their space and the people they love.Planning things with you now, later, next year and so on. Showing you off. Supporting you bettering yourself even at their expense. Talk about you to everyone.
They require the very minimal in return for all their admiration for you. Just appreciation and respect.
But this really could apply to any person in love.
You are spot on ! I'm getting closer to a libra guy and your description matches his behaviour so far .
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You are correct when you write...so far... Cuz when he gets a whiff of the of Virgo's legendary critical nature he will drop your ass quicker than you will believe. Most of us have zero I mean zero tolerance for one drop of negative criticism especially from a lover. Virgos nitpick, nitpick, criticize, pick and pick. After the first negative comment he will begin to back up, change suddenly. So enjoy it while you can, when you relax and your true nature comes out he will be gone and possibly end communication. I have no Virgos in my life. One I mean it just takes one negative comment and I am done. Done. Who needs that? Nobody wants to be criticized and judged. So If I were you, I would enjoy this while it lasts. That of mouth of yours is going to make him back up.
Posted by Librawoman77
Signs a Libra likes youTakes the initiative
Libras don’t usually initiate conversations. The reasons being, they might be unsure of the reaction of the particular girl/boy in interest or they’re still sizing you up from a distance. This is just one of the major traits of a Libra, indecision.
But if a conversation does initiate, it can be pretty obvious soon enough if they like you or not. They’ll usually be really sweet and compliment you on things they’ve been noticing about you, during their observations.
An important thing to note is to always give them some breathing space. Try not to be too receptive. Make it known to Libra that you do like them but also make them work for it. They’ll go all the way, if they really do like you.
Passivity and Eye Contact
Once committed Libras are very loyal; but until committed they can stay in indecision for some time. You may have to stay friends and be prepared to wait. If Libra is interested, their eye contact will be good, and they will have lots of ideas and be a bright spark with lots of things to say. If they are not interested they will be very passive.
Tell me about your Life
Libras are friendly/flirtatious with everyone. Being that they’re naturally curious, they will show interest in you by digging into your personal life. If Libra is focused on getting to know you on a personal and even deep level they like you. As they are so pure, you may see it in their eyes, they wouldn’t be able to hide it.
DANGER BEWARE
Despite all the lovely information I have presented, one must not forget Libras are players! They are so sweet one day, but when they know the girl/boy is falling for them, their sweetness dissolves. It’s like think they want all the girls/boys to fall for them, and when they achieve that, their ego has been bolstered
Keep them begging for MORE
Show them interest one day, and than be completely indifferent the next day. You wanna know why? Because Libras very rarely are challenged, therefore they’ll be completely intrigued. Make sure you keep a Libra hanging on your every word.
I also think that part of the reason Libras have a reputation as being players is that deep down they really don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, and so they try to please everyone and they never seem to learn that if you don’t like someone it’s okay to say “no” instead of leading them on. I think a Libra worries more about rejecting someone outright than the harm they are doing by leading someone on when they don’t feel the same way.
that was just the perfect sum up of every Libran guy I know! especially the need to try and make all the girls fall for them!
add these too,
they agree with everything you say if they like you!
laugh at even your bad jokes.
show up a lot at your place/ your cabin
ask you opinion about things (do you like the colour of the shirt?, perfume, cuff links etc)
argue with you endlessly and switch sides to support you somewhere in the middle when you get lost lol
their eyes do sparkle when they see you when they're in love! my libra ex was my favourite of exes and he's still my friend.
Damn ! Who hurt you? We are not that bad .
But tbqh I have been biting my tongue to not point out a few things about him ... It's too soon to do it ?.
But overall he's being a great guy so far , I haven't felt so comfortable and lighthearted with a guy in long time . Things are flowing naturally and I'm enjoying this ride.
I'll follow your advice and enjoy it while it lasts 🙂
they start to become overly generous by giving/making you things.
But, if you take advantage of that in a bad way, they'll resent you and blow up.
(in my personal experience)
And no, I did not take advantage of anyone's generosity. (I just realized how the post sounded lol) But I've observed 😐 Sometimes unwillingly.
Buys you shit
Makes sure you're financially, securely catered to
Wants you to work out/stay in shape so the love remains for him
Marries you
Posted by Virgoscent
@Librawoman77Damn ! Who hurt you? We are not that bad .
But tbqh I have been biting my tongue to not point out a few things about him ... It's too soon to do it ?.
But overall he's being a great guy so far , I haven't felt so comfortable and lighthearted with a guy in long time . Things are flowing naturally and I'm enjoying this ride.
I'll follow your advice and enjoy it while it lasts 🙂
LOL, no just don't criticize him. LOL Sorry if I came in hard. I despise some critical Virgo I know. I never forgot what they said. But as mean as I am I got my damn nerves.
Posted by Virgoscent
@Librawoman77Damn ! Who hurt you? We are not that bad .
But tbqh I have been biting my tongue to not point out a few things about him ... It's too soon to do it ?.
But overall he's being a great guy so far , I haven't felt so comfortable and lighthearted with a guy in long time . Things are flowing naturally and I'm enjoying this ride.
I'll follow your advice and enjoy it while it lasts 🙂
LOL, no just don't criticize him. LOL Sorry if I came in hard. I despise some critical Virgo I know. I never forgot what they said. But as mean as I am I got my damn nerves.
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Yeah, I try to love everybody, but I tend to back away from some Virgo because of their super-critical tendencies.
A Libra will flat out tell you if you move them, and all the rest above.
Dear all, I am a full Libra here. I am in deep love and I am sad. If you don't care, then don't ask.
I am here to tell the thread creator that when we love you, we will tell you. And we tell you again and again. Further, I don't think this is only trait of a Libra man. I think all men in true love do.
When I don't talk to you, I don't love you or like you that much. Period.
The problem is, for many signs, that most women think they always have more choices. They can find better men, perhaps that has been what they ce thought. And hence most women do not value the real love a man have for her.
Let me ask you women of concern, how many times in your life you will really find a man who live you wholeheartedly, who is willing to give up everything to have you? Do remember you only live ONCE!
Posted by OldLibra
Dear all, I am a full Libra here. I am in deep love and I am sad. If you don't care, then don't ask.I am here to tell the thread creator that when we love you, we will tell you. And we tell you again and again. Further, I don't think this is only trait of a Libra man. I think all men in true love do.
When I don't talk to you, I don't love you or like you that much. Period.
The problem is, for many signs, that most women think they always have more choices. They can find better men, perhaps that has been what they ce thought. And hence most women do not value the real love a man have for her.
Let me ask you women of concern, how many times in your life you will really find a man who live you wholeheartedly, who is willing to give up everything to have you? Do remember you only live ONCE!
oh boy.... SMH!
go outside gran'pa! you can keep your old advices...
ipads and wifi for old fuckers is dangerous
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Hope you doing ok there little tiny boy
If you have to ask, yours doesn't love you.
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