When your gut tells you

Something isn't right. I'm getting a really bad feeling about something and I can't shake it. I try not to read too much in to certAin things but its hard not to when you feel it's so glaringly obvious. I definitely feel like someone is playing me around and I'm just thinking of cutting off all contact now as I'm not willing to get messed around again.

I just keep getting this bad feeling over and over again about it. I've tried to get a little perspective but k think most people are at a loss as to why I feel this way or why this person is behaving in a particular way. I'm also not the type of person to jump down someone's throat and ask what's happening etc in fear of making things worse. I'm thinking of deleting the person for now as I really really don't want to get hurt again. It's very odd behaviour which I've never questioned before but I feel as though there is another woman in the picture if not a few.

Posted by starwars
when I feel that there's something off about someone, it more likely that there's a reason I felt how I felt in the first place.
I won't cut ALL things off immediately since im unsure, id withdrawal for a bit and keep the person at arm's length instead and observe, try to get other people perspective, it really helps.

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Posted by LibWman
I just keep getting this bad feeling over and over again about it. I've tried to get a little perspective but k think most people are at a loss as to why I feel this way or why this person is behaving in a particular way. I'm also not the type of person to jump down someone's throat and ask what's happening etc in fear of making things worse. I'm thinking of deleting the person for now as I really really don't want to get hurt again. It's very odd behaviour which I've never questioned before but I feel as though there is another woman in the picture if not a few.

deleting the person with no proper reason is just plain bad move, you stated that you "don't want to be hurt again", so there's a possibility its just your fears that are clouding the picture and creating those assumption in your head. cutting things off will make you seem immature and won't solve anything. I'd say to try and figure out first whether your fears are the problem or the other person' behavior.

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Posted by tiziani
I listen to instincts and try to inform them. There's a point where you can come across people who are purely instinctual and don't bother to find out about other experiences. They fall into incredible ignorance. I'm neither saying this is you or not, just saying it's not really where you want to end up at... at least take the time to listen to the other person's perspective... or if you don't have time for that then there's nothing they could have done anyway.

I do have time. I do have time and I would love to hear what they really think/feel about the situation or what it is I have to say. But I'm so worried that bringing anything like this up or questioning the person will make them retreat and distance themselves from me or disappear altogether that it's almost like I'm taking the initiative and doing it before they can hurt me. I obviously quite like this person and until now haven't had such negative thoughts about the situation. I really don't want to be feeling this way but it's just a horrible feeling I can't shake and can't even ask them about.

My instincts are telling me things about my bf. I could be paranoid but he answers everything with ease. Then there's sometimes I ask him something and he's blase and wishy washy. That drives me insane when someone can't give me a definite answer and makes my mind work overtime to piece the pieces together. And by the time I find out the truth I've already thought of the worst.

Fucking listen to your gut. Not enough people listen to theirs and the accuracy of gut feelings has a pretty high accuracy rate.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
My instincts are telling me things about my bf. I could be paranoid but he answers everything with ease. Then there's sometimes I ask him something and he's blase and wishy washy. That drives me insane when someone can't give me a definite answer and makes my mind work overtime to piece the pieces together. And by the time I find out the truth I've already thought of the worst.

I hate that. I hate never getting a straight forward answer. It's so simple to do and cuts out so much of the crap and yet some people almost enjoy mind fucking others. I seriously despise those people

Listen to your instincts.. I describe the uneasy gut feelings as "swimming & swirling fish". Stay away from whomever who gives you that reaction.

I think that intuition is God speaking to me and after God speaks there isn't really any other consulting to do.

It's not always easy to follow the wisdom of our intuition. But PAIN...will teach you how to be obedient to your intuition. Jesus learned obedience through the things that he suffered.

In my experience, the sooner I obey the intuitive feeling the less the emotional pain. The later I obey, the greater the emotional pain. Once my intuition has spoken no matter what kind of crumbs I get from the situation I know it's the deception.