behaviour of a libra man

This topic was created in the Libra forum by gosuke on Thursday, October 29, 2015 and has 7 replies.

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@gosuke
12 Years

hi! am an aries woman, recently i met a libra man, almost 5 month now. he did keep on talking to me every day, sending me msg, wanted to know everything about me, my career, my dream, etc.
it has been one week i found that he has stopped texting me on mobile but when he is at work he used to send me 1 or 2 msg on facebook every day. i saw that strange.
3 days ago i asked him whats wrong. he told me i hurt him.
i said "what!", he said i said something bad to him then i remembered while joking with him on mobile, his voice had changed.

but i did say Am really sorry and i prefer not to talk about that topic again when i asked him whats wrong with him and he said "okay 🙂"

i thought he forgot that, but recently he remind me about that topic again and when i asked him "why u stop texting me on mobile?" he said "i dont have time" (even thought he keep on sending me msg on facebook everyday.

as if "sorry" was not enough for him.

i told him again "i swear, i never meant to hurt you. even in my dream i dont do that to you. if you found that i did that and you dont want to talk to me again. its better to tell me and i will go. i swear. "

he was already logged off from facebook.

Can someone help me for that koz i dont really know whats going with him and why is he behaving like that. is he in love with me? that's y he is behaving like that? o.O

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@Starry22
12 Years

Librans love to have friends and adore people with whom they van have a friendly banter. He was enjoying his time with you. It may be love but that only he can tell. What exavtly happened for him to get hurt? What did you say or do?

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@mysteriousTaurus
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Concluding that he is in love with you is a major jump to conclusion, If he is distancing himself from you he is not in love with you and far from it. One thing at and time. Patience, ram.

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

"this guy i know ignores me and makes no effort to contact me. he doesn't make time to see and puts everything else before me. i can't help but think this must mean he is in love with me."

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@Dyxpnetuser424
10 Years

You said something that turned him off from you to such a profound degree he has significantly distanced himself from you. He's behavior is in response to being "turned off" by you, not
in-love.

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@mysteriousTaurus
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by jeane
"this guy i know ignores me and makes no effort to contact me. he doesn't make time to see and puts everything else before me. i can't help but think this must mean he is in love with me."

LOL, I don't mean to laugh but like cmon, girls are infamous for jumping to ludicrous conclusions, makes us look horrible. He is clearly showing signs of disinterest, idk where one would gather information that he must be in love?
BTW message me back jeane ™