Why do we hate to be ignorned &............

The unknown so bad— Like this pisces I am seeing ..He ignored to texts I sent to him 2 days ago...so typical libra ..hurt by his actions I havent bothered trying t text him back and neither has he which leaves the " unknown" ....what happened...did I do something wrong— The over thinking has began and remains lol

lol im exactly the same! i over think everything but usually look straight past the obvious. I hate being ignored and instantly come up with a million (usually crazy) ideas about why the person is ignoring me, when more times then not it is something completely innocent, like made a mental note to text back but forgot ( i actually do htis one myself a lot) I now have a generic message "hey you you not get my text or are you just ignoring mr 😛 lol" that i tend to send to people who havnt replied for a few days, if they dont reply to that one i assume my crazy ideas were right and they were abducted by aliens who confiscated their phone which could be the only reason the could be ignoring me 🙂

Too funny Sun Libra. I'm glad to know I'm not alone in thinking this way. I got a chick ignoring me right now and it's driving me crazy. Dang we work together ......(when will I learn to stop sleeping with chicks I work with) lol. But we have sent sexually text all day and now she won't pick up the phone or reply to my text. Since I'm in the over thinking stage .... here goes. No one at work knows we're fooling around. Her close friend at work may have told her that I'm having a night cap with her tonight. NO NO NO, I'm not sleeping or trying to sleep with them both. The close friend just broke up with her boyfriend and didn't want to be home alone. I'm sleeping in a different room as well. But I haven't told my girl yet. I'm hoping the friend hasn't said anything but I will know sooner or later. lol ..... We are all friends, we have lunch together, club together, and planning a trip together later this year, so this is very innocent but sometimes woman don't see it that way.

Sorry, did you say something?


waitwat?

SMH@Like this pisces I am seeing.....I wouldn't call a couple text messages and a date hardly seeing him, have you stop to think your obsessiveness and clinginess is the reason why he moved on. Your already clinging and claiming him and he's hardly in your life.

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Posted by LibraSid
Sorry, did you say something?


waitwat?

Whoa! Where did you come from?
Have you been here the whole time?

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I've been following you since the bus this morning... you don't remember?

Me - recently awoken from a nap on the bench at the bus stop, picking crumbs out of my overgrown beard and pestering everyone for a drink;

You - choking on my odor, tripping over your purse trying to get away;

Then, at the last moment, our eyes met, mine were blue.

Can I have a dollar?

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Does anyone really like being ignored?

i can care less if someone else ignore me.

some people like attention more than others and when they dont get it they throw tantrums it's actually a funny thing to watch lmao.

SMH@Like this pisces I am seeing.....I wouldn't call a couple text messages and a date hardly seeing him, have you stop to think your obsessiveness and clinginess is the reason why he moved on. Your already clinging and claiming him and he's hardly in your life

First off I am not being clingy or needy..I hardly think sending 2 texts that day at around 5 to six hours apart could be called that.

Second off we talked a lot before our date, and yes it was a date..All 4 hours of it and 3 hours was spent talking and enjoying each others company getting to really know each other better...

Third- I am not being obbsessed over HIM....I have a million things running through my head of as to why he ignored or had no contact because I WAS NOT being clingy or needy at any time with him so I KNOW thats not it......

To the rest of ya-


Yes everyone HATES to be ignored ..Just libras seems to take it harder than others..

Oh and I used to hate to be ignored, I'm an air sign, we abhor it but I learned as I got older that it doesn't matter...Fuck em

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by libragal76
To the rest of ya-


Yes everyone HATES to be ignored ..Just libras seems to take it harder than others..

Hahaha I don't know about THAT...try witnessing an unacknowledged Leo!

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QFT - Leos can't staaaaand being ignored. Flips them out BAD.

Also... Libras are very, very good at detachment and disconnection.. but turning it around on them (just a little bit) is like beating them at their own game. And yes, no one likes being beaten at their own game. Very effective, if done sparingly and for good reason. They use the time and space to mentally obsess and perhaps realize the error of their ways.



But, as gently as possible, Libra gal... two texts in one day CAN come across needy and desperate to a man. Especially if said man is busy and distracted and sees (or feels, as Pisces do) something clingy, needy, pushy in your words, even if you don't realize the vibe you're giving off. Probably not the last nail in the coffin, not yet. Send another, esp one mentioning his not answering you, and you'll hear the hollow thud when it DOES get hammered home.

He liked you, was attracted to you.. took you out.. great date, great convo... but now you're all wrapped up.. and there's no way he's ready for that. WAY too soon. Take a deep breath and slow down. DON'T text him. Let HIM reach out to you... that would feel better to you anyway, right? Go out and do something FUN and nice for YOU. If this man is ever going to decide to come closer to you, HE must decide he likes being around you better than being away from you, and you must NOT try to be a Convincer cuz that will turn him off. Men make their own decisions, tyvm. Convincing him how great you are feels like you think he's stupid and can't make his own choices and must be told how awesome you are.

Deep breath. And never, ever drunk text... OMG a million girls have fucked up a million times doing that! It's NEVER a good idea, just like drunk-dialing! Tomorrow's another day, another day for him to think about you, remember you, miss you, want to see you again.

I didn't tell her to disconnect, or NOT disconnect (but disconnecting from your real and authentic and true emotions is not good for a woman - messes up her vibe and all sorts of stuff!).. merely pointed out that Libras tend to be very skilled at doing this.. and that it definitely annoys them to no end when others do it to them LOL

All I said is don't chase (esp an unresponsive guy), that feels yucky to any woman. Reciprocating is good.. pursuing one-sided is not. Until he steps up, you don't have any idea of what HE'S made of, and it's too soon to over-invest yourself on a guy you went out with ONCE. Keep busy, keep centered, he's not the last guy on the planet. If and when he calls again, live IN the moment, slow down, enjoy the process of getting to know each other, without worrying about every text message that goes unanswered.

Incidentally, I'm a Pisces, and I HAAAAATE texting.. hate phones too. Sometimes I have no choice, but I'll never LIKE them. I prefer face to face (gets my lil psychic antennae grooving lol). Paraphrase of what I read somewhere on DXP recently (can't find it right now): "Since when did electronic means become the barometer of a relationship? How much they call, if they don't answer a text.. what happened to actions before words? To how you are in person?"

Yes, he SHOULD probably answer texts.. it's rather rude not to. But no one knows his reasons yet. But we've pretty much all said in different ways that she needs to slow her "bonding" down and not put all her eggs in this one guy's basket, not this soon - it's clearly driving her crazy LOL Give him a chance to step up... if you start out a relationship and set the pattern of always chasing the man, rowing the boat, doing all of the work.. eventually the one-sidedness starts FEELING even WORSE to the woman.. and worse to the man too. And then he backs away, saying he's not "ready" for a relationship. Very sad, and entirely avoidable. If a man cannot initiate or return texts/calls and take you out on dates, how can that man even DO a relationship? So don't choose that man... she has all the power here. It's HER choice to accept or not accept indifferent and distant behavior.

Most women don't know their true value. It's immeasurable.

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Does anyone really like being ignored?

Nope, certainly not I at least. When people speak to me, I give 100% attention and get rather pissed if I don't get the same.

Being ignored is one thing that really gets to me. Unfortunately my mum caught on to this early and as a punishment used to completely ignore me for hours!! So cruel would have preferred to have been grounded any day!

I do think Libras do tend to take being ignored harder then other signs, the beginning of the end of my engagement was when my ex ignored me prancing around in my underwear because he was on his PS3!! I WILL NOT BE IGNORED!!!!! he learnt that the hard way, RIP PS3 😉

LOL @ the last post on the undwear n being ignored...I would have made him pay for that one!! Well guys I have not text him back since he ignored my 2 texts 5 day ago..Its not me..I might say I will and allmostt...BUT I snap back to reality real quick...Called " weighing options" should I ? Mmmmm NOPE LOL...It feels better NOT to have bothered him after he ignored me...It gives me my power back and its me saying to him...I don't CARE one way or another and I don't need you!! If he calls or texts me IDK if I will respond 🙂 I might ignore him all together!!! That would make my day!! Hell My week LOL

Finny thing is...He will be on patrol till midnight tomorrow and I will be seeming him A LOT in passing on the road bc of what I do

Posted by size zero superhero
(Just my 2cents) I've come to appreciate being ignored in some cases and at given times. Receiving buttloads of attention can be overwhelming and feel like excess pressure more than anything else.

Good point! Sometimes I like to not hear from someone for a while after I have seen them or heard from them a lot in the past day or two.

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Posted by size zero superhero
(Just my 2cents) I've come to appreciate being ignored in some cases and at given times. Receiving buttloads of attention can be overwhelming and feel like excess pressure more than anything else.

Good point! Sometimes I like to not hear from someone for a while after I have seen them or heard from them a lot in the past day or two.

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Someone not being in touch though annoying sometimes is VERY different from someone ignoring you. If someone hasnt been in touch then im not fussed as if i wanted them i would contact them but someone who dosnt reply when you try to get in touch is so damn rude! it drives me crazy.