Getting over people

Ok i guess everyone has heard the saying "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else" 😉 but for me this really is true.

I can be madly in love with someone one day then as soon as i find a new victim (lol) I am completely over the other person. Anyone else this way? or am I just strange—

A lot of people are like that. The truth of it is that you aren't really getting over the last one, you are just sweeping it under the rug. The best way to really get over a relationship is to be alone, sort out what went wrong (on both sides), and move on. When you are in a relationship you get used to things. Whether it be a good night phone call, a midday text, a good night kiss, or simple companionship...

Learn to be happy by yourself or you will never be happy with someone else.

I never stop caring about anyone I had deep feelings for, my ex fiance is actually my best friend! but as soon as i have someone new i stop wanting the old person. It doesnt usually take me long to realise what went wrong and i usually sort that bit out with the ex as i am breaking up with them or vice versa, i never allow (lol) someone to end a relationship with me without a long discussion about why we didnt work.

I tend not to have or need alone time, im actually really emotionally cut off, not to say i dont have deep feelings for people i can just easily switch them off when i find my next project

that's how i am. only it's not about sex. i could sex anybody, i've got to fall in love. or at least infatuation. i feel that for one person at all times. can't be none. so if i want to get over one guy, it won't happen til i fall for somebody else.

Not for me. The only way I get over someone is once I solve the riddle of what the relationship was and why it ended/went down the way it did.

Posted by little_sparrow
Not for me. The only way I get over someone is once I solve the riddle of what the relationship was and why it ended/went down the way it did.

I have little or no interest in solving anything once i have a new toy to play with, im very easily distracted and that person becoms a distant memory lol

With friends it is completely different, I have been hurt so much by some of my friends that i dont even bother having friends anymore! I have "people i know" but i dont let any of them get close to me so that they cant disappoint or hurt me. Very lonely and odd way to live but to me its completely neccessary.

fuckit lifes too short to be unhappy if finding someone new is how u deal who am i to judge