Posted by RooSagicornPosted by simsim88
also what should i do? should i keep my distance? i hate mind games lol. im bad at them (sag venus lol)
i am being patient and i have been reaching out to him even though he stopped (every couple of days texts) good morning or how you doing ext.. nothing crazy.
me not texting him at all, isnt me... lol
You know when they get like this it is tough. My ex boyfriend struggled in our relationship a lot. Always feeling insecure and not good enough. Twice he disappeared completely, once he came back. So the thing is you can’t make them come back, you have to let them work through it. Personally when he stopped initiating and responding to my messages, I stopped too.
You have to always be yourself, but if he’s not making effort and not arranging to see you, what do you really have? When you’ve poured your heart out & they are still in their little cave there just isn’t much you can do. Btw I’m Cap Venus, Mercury & mars but sag sun.
In the end, he went off to find someone else to make him not be miserable.. instead of dealing with why he was miserable ( like i was trying to get him to do) his only issues with me were really about him. But I had to figure it all out later from things he had said when he was working through it.. cuz later when he disappeared he again refused to deal with it. The comments were we’ll talk soon. I promise we will get together.. yeah not so much. Those are going away comments. Continuing to reach out does not help. This btw was from someone who was planning a future together.. but you know he was right. I’m better off without him.
Hope this helps you somewhat.click to expand