Bro, you're probably so easy that he doesn't even respect you. And when you show signs of a spine you get uninvited because you're no longer deemed controllable and you might even cause a scene. No cap likes that, to have his good name sullied by some......easy girl. They like such girls in private, away from prying eyes.
The fact the guy wanted to sleep with you over NY's..... you were meant to be just a hole on a drunk night to spice up the memories of NY's 2019 and it didn't mean that he wanted anything with you romantically.