Posted by Lakeslady330Posted by aquatar1
Just tell him "I know this time of year must be difficult for you, I'm here to listen if you ever need to talk. If I can do anything to comfort you let me know, I'm here for you." or something along those lines. The thing about losing someone is that people dont wanna bring it up to remind someone of it, but you never forget and someone mentioning it isnt suddenly gonna make you remember, bringing it up sometimes is good cause the person feels pain and can't just ignore it and pretend to be fine for the sake of others.
It's not something that just happened yesterday to him, so assume he's already had time to be on his own to process it, he needs support at times too, even if its just knowing you're there for him and arent pressuring him to be happy and cool and "on" during this month.
If you can afford it, I'd maybe go online and order an edible arrangement and have it sent it to him (perfect for long distance cause theres a store in almost every city so its not a long process) as a sweet surprise, just to show you're thinking of him. Taurus show love through service and gifts and thoughfulness, so I'm sure he'd appreciate knowing you're thinking of him.
I really like the idea of having something sent to him with a note letting him know I'm here for him. Thanks, that's a great tangible way to show him I do careclick to expand