@Praisee hope it's not too late for this piece of advice. I see that in your relationship she's all over you and you're a little overwhelmed now. A man should be independent and carefree, let his woman follows him not the other way around. Anyhow, I know that it's tempting to help the one you love at their low stage in life, but what happens in the near future? It's like a habit, and giving money to help...will it end sometimes? The fact that many saw this as a tantrum is because of the problem is so small, and unworthy to have a fight at all. So what you should do now probably give her space, and do not blame herself, or being too eager around her. Just because you're in a long distance rship it doesn't mean you become dependent to her and supply every one of her demands. I like to see a woman supplying her own demands because it proves her independence, and emotionally prepared for the worst to come because this thing you have here is not that big of a deal comparing to all real fights couples have out there. One day, if the problem isn't you, and she's incapable to be strong as she should be, you would be the one to take the fall. She's been your soulmate and helping you getting better, but you need to know that time changes, people change, and sometimes maybe there is something wrong in her time overseas and she finds every other excuse to vent it somehow. Give her time, slowly talk to her asking about her well-being.