Lurking. Judging. ...I really should finish my reports.
26 years old male from Big City
I feel we often come off as cheaters without intending to.
I know that I have this bad and stupid habit to flirt with other women when wanting to be serious with someone else. It cuts the edge off of my feeling vulnerable with the person I'm into. So, I flirt shamelessly, but have no intention of doing anything with anyone else.
Also, when I'm not looking for anything serious, I can cuff people left and right, if my ego is feeling sort of off.
So, yeah, imo, we can be players but not cheaters, if that's what you're asking. As some people have mentioned, it's not the sign that defines if you'll be a cheating bag of shyte.