Posted by Yellowmonkey87Posted by blvckphvsePosted by EarthyPosted by blvckphvsePosted by EarthyPosted by blvckphvsePosted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by Whorpio
Sorry, not to be rude, but that’s kind of insensitive. These kind of events cause great emotional trauma for women. I was pregnant and choosing to terminate the pregnancy was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do in my life. I still regret my decision 100 % to this day. Terminating a pregnancy can have long term emotional and psychological effects on the women enduring it. I can tell you that most women who do end up having to baby don’t regret their decision at all. It will be hard, but she can do it. People find ways. She’s a strong woman with whatever decision she chooses.
I had an abortion and it didn't cause me any trauma because I knew it was the right thing to do for the child. I made the decision based on my ability to raise a child at the time and I do not regret it in the least. We are all different. As long as you are doing what feels right for yourself AND the child.. most importantly the child.
Your thought process is that destroying the baby was " what felt right to the child" 🤣🤣🤣
I mean if it was best for you...do wat you have to. But let's not pretend the baby would have grown up to say " you should have just killed me mom" 🤣🤣🤣 bullbutter
You completely misunderstand the point. If you can't provide for a child financially, are not in a good place mentally or don't have support to raise a child, it's selfish to have one PERIOD. It's not about what's best for me.. I was not in a good place financially and I was in an abusive relationship. Tell me how bringing a child into an abusive relationship was going to benefit it in any way at all.. Clearly I was not managing myself to the best of my ability if I was staying in a butterty relationship.. what kind of mother could I be if I didn't even have my own butter together?? What kind of role model would I be clinging to someone who abused me?? Sad that women don't even think about who they are as a person before reproducing.. casue it's super fkn important.
But okay, lets pretend like suicide never ever happens. People are depressed as treetrunk these days and most of it stems from a poor upbringing. If I can't provide a child with a decent upbringing then yes, they are better off not being in this world. Not to mention that the state of the world isn't a great place to bring a child into anyways..
I didnt miss the point at all I dont think?🤔
I believe in women having the choice so watever was best for you. But wat I was saying is do u believe people that's extremely disabled or people that are in poverty better off dead!!!!
I'm a product of a rape...my mom was 14
I also grew up in very hard situations. My mom kept me. Did the best she could.
I grew up to be very successful, and emotionally well balanced becuz I was loved.
My point is death gives the child no chance. Which would be better for you not to have to go thro the hardship. But not the child
My opinion is that it's a cop out but watever🤷♀️
I'm pretty sure majority of people living in poverty even want and strive for better for themselves.. so No, in no way am I saying they are better off dead. I am saying why bring a child into this world knowing they will face hardships and struggle.
I'm not about to just throw the dice and take a chance.. Life is hard enough on it's own. Children need proper support and guidance, they need a good role model and they need to be instilled with proper morals and values or they are going to struggle in life. That's awesome that you had a good Mom who did her very best for you, you are lucky! Being a parent is the hardest and most serious job on the planet, yet anyone is able to do it. Heck ya can't even get a job at MacDonalds without proving yourself worthy and being interviewed, but to be a parent, shiiit all you need is a reproductive system. That doesn't mean people shouldn't consider how they will effect the life of another human being. It's a big deal, not something you just gamble on and say, we'll see how it goes.. I'd want my children to have a happy and successful life, not just a chance at it.. So I'd be damn sure I had all my ducks in a row before trying to pave a path for someone else.
Thank you for all of your input guys, I decided to abort my pregnancy for now. Ive given thoughts about it and wavering btw aborting it or not but I think its best to not having a baby for right now. I know I made mistakes and its not fair for the baby to pay for it, but I think its best. I do not want to put my baby in poverty situation because ive been there and I grew up in malfunction family. I don't want my baby to say what I said to my mother, "I wish I would've never been born." To the single mother out there, I just want to say, "I'm proud of you and youre doing a good job. I wish I could be more like you."click to expand