I left the use out bc at the time I had no proof, but since he has been gone I have found solid proof and my eyes have been opened up to alot more that I didn't even realize. We have talked and I have mentioned his getting help. He says he isn't in drugs and doesn't need help, that I'm just crazy and he doesn't want to be with someone who is always accusing him. That's perfectly fine with me. I don't think I could enter back into another relationship with him as my trust is broken. I will offer emotional support should he ever decide he wants help, but as long as he is living in a house with other users I will not offer anything.