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My 5 year plan is to get divorced, get out of the hell of this funk, get a Masters degree in teaching English, pack up the Virgo and move back to Korea, teach at a University as a treetrunk you to the universe and the people that tell me I can’t have it all.
I want to write a daily blog? on the conversations I’m eavesdropping in on around me in cafes.
What's wrong with your husband?
Just don’t want to be married anymore. I dislike the codependency and I don’t think it’s fair to stay married when I know I don’t want to be.
I’ve basically come to the conclusion that I got married to make life easier as well as the feels but even though life is easier he essentially told me that I can’t do both in life. Basically telling me I shouldn’t and or couldn’t pursue my dreams and be married and that I should try to be happy with my lot in life.
So I chose what my gut told me.
He’s accepted it but he’s sad.
I don’t really feel much as the moment I’m pretty numb to everything.
Sag Moon wins again. 👍🏻
How long have you two been married for? It's really unfortunate when you end up getting a life partner who'd rather hold you back & lose you vs. letting you grow and still keep you. Like damn me trying to grow as a person would kill you that much?
5 years. The problem I think - is that he is much older and he’s pretty much become the person he wants to and he’s a homebody family man and while his personality is great and we do get along and there is trust - I think I’ve outgrown him.
He wants to invest in roots and stability and a nice house but I don’t really find that is what I want to work for.
I also just had my parents get divorce after 30 years of marriage and I don’t want to look back later and feel like I settled. And he doesn’t deserve to be that.click to expand