Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by SassyKiwiPosted by LadyNeptune
Not all females are difficult to be friends with. Don’t look at it from that viewpoint.
Im sorry you and your friend are growing apart. But it’s not that uncommon. Especially as you were hs buds and essentially children when you met. People change over the years and grow apart. It’s life. Growing pains and what not.
It may be time to distance yourself and down grade the friendship. Give your time and effort to others.
It's so hard to make new female friends in adulthood especially if you work in a private small business setting vs corporate. I'm trying to befriend other married couples through my husband's friends since they're older and married vs my younger unmarried friends but even then some of them seem like they'd prefer to be alone than be friends with other women? Like it'd be me carrying majority of the conversations and I know there's nothing wrong with what I say because their husbands are more responsive to them and engaged in them than the wives. It's like these women want to keep other women distant so they don't also come near their husbands or something? My goal is to befriend YOU but if your husband is being more engaged in the conversation then why not step up and be more responsive too? Women are so treetrunking infuriating.
It has to be an organic thing, you can’t force it.
But I think just cause you had a meh moment, don’t give up. Couple friends are awesome!
And throw the age thing out the window. Our fav couple is in their late 50s and we have the best time with them.
It’s refreshing to a spend time with them cause they have built a wonderful life together and seem to genuinely still enjoy each other. Total #goals. I’m taking notes.click to expand