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Guys I need a little bit of help...
I love love love this guy he is everything I look for in a man! He gets me excited, he keeps me happy, I love how he doesn't go out much and how he takes his education very serious. When I say I love everything I mean it. He is like a dream man like I created him it's crazy.. kinda scary.. Anyhow when we argue [normal healthy arguments] we work together and figure our butters out, great but the only thing is, it's hard for me to grab him when I feel as if he slipping through my fingers like why does it feel like he is hiding from me?
Is he scared?
What is it with him holding back... do all Cancer men hold back from their partner?
Will I have to deal with this throughout my relationship?
But then the other part of me is telling me to let him be because I know he will come back at the end of the day, I trust him very much. But I have to say I hate how he wants to be here one day and treat me like I'm the only person he will ever love in the world. Then the next day [not necessary the next day but within the same week] he just won't talk to me for a whole day which I'm okay with because we both live our own lives and I believe he testing to see if he could live without me or something...
Is that the case?
I feel as if he trusts me but I just don't know, how can I tell?
I love him very much sometimes I feel as if I show him too much love and attention...
Should I stop that?
If he knows anything about me is that he knows I'm not going anywhere, he will have to tell me to leave. Other than all of that I am loving and having so much fun learning about him
Cancers and libras would be a perfect match, if their life style s weren't so different. A cancer man is always quiet. Hardly talk unless his communication is in gemini, but even then. I'd say move before deeper feelings acrue. You're both wasting each other's times because who you aspire to be is totally different. You need a man type of man. Cancers are half female emotionally. You will live to regret it. I honestly believe Libras should stay with air signs or aries but still examine the rest of the person's chart.
People get to date whomever they wish in real life and not according to the dxp "rules". I believe she was asking for help on the relationship to make it better not on why she should break up with him. Supposed "ideal" zodiac matches is not necessarily a slam dunk...I bear witness to this in my everyday life all the time...
True and I get what you're saying. She's trying to make this relationship work. As a cancer male (cancer leo 1st day of the cusp), I'll tell you Libra, has actually become one of my favorite signs of the entire zodiac. It's one of the signs I'm actually considering trying to find someone to settle down with. But for years, I was at the throats of libras; I didn't understand why they needed to talk so much. I didn't understand why they needed to be friends with everyone. (This is until I fell for one and they changed my entire life; my behavior, my everything) **Libra is now the sign I get along practically the best with, and naturally so. I love them so much.
But most cancers aren't built like me; I have a lot of capricorn and virgo numbing down my sensitivity, and 7th houses thoughout my chart to draw me closer to libras.
What are your two birthdates?
His birthday is July 18th
Mine is Oct 15th
Please provide years
I'm asking for the years you're both born..
He is 97 I'm 99
Ok, so here’s my take: your sun signs are square; if not now, because you’re both so young, your egos will have a hard time accommodating the other within a single relationship. There will be fundamental things of your nature he will not understand, and he might nit pick at (like Cancers do) until a break up occurs. Likewise, there’s fundamental things he does that you won’t understand (retires to himself; stays quiet a lot is moody) and you will bring up in regularly in passive aggressive manners, until eventually a break up will occur. **Your ego will be more suitable for him to adapt to, than his ego will be for you to adapt to. Libras want a “man.” Cancers have shy, quiet, moody insecure, cranky and passive aggressive social habits that will embarrass you, especially as they grow up into adult hood. He will blatantly call out your charming manner as “lying” or fudging to get your way. **Since his moon is Capricorn, this balances out his mood incredibly. He can keep the qualities I mentioned about him low. (**I’m a cancer/leo with a Capricorn moon, so I understand this dynamic well)
Other than the sun signs (which is a major problem that will ultimately restrict how close you two are willing to come together, or accept one another in the long run), you have soulmate qualities. Both have moons are in Capricorn. Capricorn is a debilitated state for the moon, because the moon naturally belongs in cancer, 6 out of twelve months apart, being a complete opposition. Both of you probably feel misunderstood by society in general for the most part. It’s hard for both to demonstrate spontaneous gestures of emotion.
Communication wise, your communication is in scorpio. His is in Leo. He might be insulted by how direct, and abrasive you package your responses. (My communication’s in Leo also. I’ve been in situations those with mercury in scorpio and have been offended easily. Him being a cancer sun, he might maximize the offense. Being Capricorn moon makes him strong, but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t feel the verbal slices deep down.)
Your north node (soulmate territory) is in Leo. His Venus is in Leo. Romantic soulmate compatibility dead on.
His north node is in virgo. Your Venus is in virgo. Romantic soulmate compatibility dead on. Double whammy at that which makes it stronger.
His mars (follow through nature), Libra, is conjunct your sun sign, Libra. Major soulmate compatibility point.
His Neptune is conjunct your moon sign. He might idealize you as her perfect match privately, to the point of delusion; a standard your natural character might not necessarily be able to live up to.
His Pluto is conjunct your mars; you have very intense, and entertaining communication exchanges. Privately, he might want to dominate you, or is subconsciously trying to figure out how to dominate you to ensure he can keep you all his own. (But domination could feel suffocating overtime if he succeeds and eventually it gets old to you)
Chinese zodiac, he’s an ox. Dependable, straightforward, a little monotonous and boring in his day to day structure. You’re a rabbit. Your sensitive nature might be triggered by his straightforwardness a little. On the plus side, this might balance out your mercury problem a bit (His is Leo and yours is scorpio, as mentioned earlier). Read up about this on the internet. As a libra, you always look perfect leaving the house, but make sure you keep the quality of neatness in your home in perfect standing for him.
Life path, you’re a 6 and he’s a nine. You’re a sensitive nurturer who enjoys taking care of people and he’s a powerhouse; very wise, full of energy and he’s very protective of these he loves. Very into helping the needy. A very, very good match.
Live path wise, you’re an 8; concerned with balance, harmony and spirituality. He’s an 8; as well. Very well suited to support each other in life.
Theres also several asteroids to look into; without birth times, I can’t look into houses.click to expand