When I set my mind on something, I go against all odds to accomplish my goals. I get scared, cry and have anxiety over it but I stay focus. I am kind to myself and I find other people who truly support my goals.
When me and my scorp ex broke up, I hit rock bottom. I struggled with my feelings and thoughts. I could barely function but people didn't noticed, only a few. Somewhere in all that chaos, beaten physically and emotionally, I had that tiny goal shinning its light to overcome the trauma. The first thing I did was choose which way I wanted to go. I kept myself busy and scheduled the times I needed to vent. I woke up reciting daily mantras infront of the bathroom mirror and meditation music to and from work. I stopped habits that affected my overall health.
Sometimes, I let things be. I don't fight it and that's the time I reenergize and plan.