Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by malloryorPosted by ImperfectStorm
I’m losing my patience with my Pisces. Lol I feel like we are just at that age where we don’t have time to be wasting time. This hot/cold butter is for the birds. I’m like let’s move with intention or let’s not move at all.
Energy is real and you can feel when it shifts.. it has definitely shifted. We don’t talk as often as we used to. (We were last texting on Friday. I called him to talk Friday night, no answer and he never called/texted back, and either have I.) I don’t think about him as much as I used to, I refuse to chase a man and I’m not making excuses for anyone in 2021. I did that for 10 years with my ex. I think the rose tinted glasses are coming off. 🤷♀️
That’s always the thing with Pisces men. They don’t even realize that when they swim away, they are essentially helping you learn to live without them and to stop missing them because you get used to the distance and you get used to their absence. And distance doesn’t always make the heart grow fonder. Especially when there is already physical distance between you. But I’d be lying if I said I don’t feel the sting of disappointment. It didn’t make sense anyway because of the distance.
Wow. Sheesh. I was hoping this would turn out well for you. I suppose him telling you “don’t get attached” or whatever it was he said was the warning sign. Pisces men can be so fickle, the only person I’ve known to lock them down is a Gemini. Anyway, maybe he’s busy this week, you did say he has a pretty demanding job. But energy is real, and if you feel something is off, it most likely is. It is probably all for the best, I’ve found I got the MOST hurt when I tried to force myself to be with people who showed red flags or flakiness. This may be the universe showing he is not the one and someone else is better for you.
Well he never said not to catch feelings, he was actually the opposite he told me I could be as mushy or emotional or angry etc with him as I wanted to be. But he did say he didn’t think he could do long distance again and said that he worried about me being “sad” during the times when we are apart.. He was with his ex long distance for 5 years and she cheated. I guess I’m just frustrated because he pursued me. It’s like if he knew from the get go that I live far away, and knew that he can’t do long distance.. why even start something you can’t finish ? Idk.
And yes you’re right he is definitely busy. But you know how it is. People make time when they want to. I was hoping for a different turn out too, but similarly to him, I’m not really a fan of long distance either. So you’re probably right. It’s probably a blessing in disguise. Maybe he was just meant to be the catalyst to help me get over my ex without actually being the person for me to move forward with.click to expand