Posted by ImperfectStormI can't sit around waiting for her to make her mind up on if she wants me or not it's unfair on me and the kids
Yeah you are giving her way more power than what she actually has. Love is not meant to be emotional bondage, that’s attachment or addiction that keeps you in an unhealthy, unrequited type of situation like that. You can love someone and let them go with the confidence in knowing that you gave it all that you could give. You keep talking about her as if it’s her that’s holding you back… it’s really not, it’s you that’s keeping you in this situation. Stop playing the victim to what you consider “love” and take back your power. Stop talking about her and what she’s doing to keep you there.. you’re just reinforcing it and you’ll be here in another 7-10 days making another post about how she won’t let you go. It’s you that isn’t letting go, you’re focusing on her when you really need to be focusing on rebuilding your inner strength and self love.