Posted by alexscariesPosted by allrounderPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by allrounderPosted by LostthoughtsPosted by allrounderPosted by Moloko_vellocet
I think you’re still vanilla.
Lol I believe BDSM shouldn't be only framed as extreme stuff. Like all things, it has a scale of light to extreme. But hey, if you wanna judge, I ain't stopping ya, typical human behavior.
I do have a list of kinks, but you'd be here for a good 10 minutes reading through it all, so I just gave some basic examples of what I meant by BDSM/kinky sex though I am into those as well, but it was so people would get what I mean. I'll say one of things I am is I'm a 100% brat as well, so idk how a Taurus person would handle this aspect. Because if you know how a brat is in BDSM.. A brat can't really do 100% vanilla. But I like a mix of vanilla and BDSM. I don't have to be hardcore just to say I like some kinky shit lol
I follow the energy in the bedroom.
I remember reading about brat. Lol, to me it sounds like just challenging your partner verbally and physically.
Like shit talking and playful wrestling would be in line with that. Basically it's a playful energy correct?
oh are you a Taurus? I guess in a literal sense, yeah, it's pretty much being disobedient to the rules, mischievous but all in playful good fun. As in we like to break the rules because we want the punishment. I love the punishment aspect. And the other person could take on Brat Tamer and essentially try tame us. I have quite a playful personality as well.
Shit talking and play fighting can be some of the forms! Some like writing lines (personally I find no joy in that). I love the number of spankings at once. Being restrained from doing something, but finding a creative way to break said rule. Anything that we can do or say something to set the Brat Tamer off is on the table.
Lol remember in grade school how when a boy liked a girl he didn't know how to show it so teased the girl?
Yes. I consider that playful we are on the same page.
"Shit talking and play fighting can be some of the forms! Some like writing lines (personally I find no joy in that)."
Ya that's just role play as far as I'm concerned. I can see playing a part but lines like on a script...nah. I don't do fake. Now certain phrases that you know will trigger your partner is just fine😁
Shouldn't be too hard to find what you want. Anyone who has thier inner child intact and can be a bit silly or similar in humour with you would be a good indication👌
"Extraverted dorks and nerds"as well as fans of: anime, hentai, comics, action adventure and sci-fi genres, and etc.
Every single one I've talked to have been into some shit. So high chance there lol
For woman it's harder for me to spot. For sure fans of books like Anne Rice and Laurell K. Hamilton are dead give always. Also some married woman are oddly talkative. However, woman who have poor sense of humour and talk themselves up seem....to be the opposite🙄
Have any tips on spotting more open mind woman?
oh when I say writing lines, I mean like the punishment is genuinely just writing lines like when the school kid has to write "I will not hit another student again" or something like this. That's the punishment. There's some brats who are into that, I'm not. But they'll write for example, "I will not talk back to Daddy/Sir again".
on that note about roleplay, I'm more into dressing up, because I would not be able to take playing a role seriously in bed.
I feel like introverted people are into a lot of shit too though, I'm an ambiverted introvert. You know what they say about the "quiet" ones too. I won't lie, I'm into some hentai myself so you're probably onto something there.
And I'll do my best to answer your question 😅 I'd say I'm pretty open minded. So I guess finding the women who have a flexible sense of humour, like to initiate banter/playfulness with you a lot, can flow into and talk about any subjects without acting weirded out (biggest one imo, but obviously doesn't apply to personal triggering topics). Those are some good starting points.
Dressing up is roleplay.click to expand