There is a book, "Dating without drama"...(God forbid we should read a book for perspective) The woman's dating question was, "My guy was very attentive for a while...now all of sudden he has withdrawn and is NOT CALLING me w/o any explaination...what is going on? (she did not mention a length of time) The dating experts answer was as follows... When men feel something is too strong and they don't know how to deal with it or they need space to sort it out they will do this. Just give him the space he needs, until he sorts it out and he will with space and time. It may be weeks or a few months...I guarantee he will come around after he sorts it out. I think that is excellent advice and don't we as women sometimes need space to sort things out?
Read ladies read...it's amazing how you can get a different spin on your negative attitudes. And "How to catch him and keep him" is good too. The author talks about how men appreciate your ability to think outside the typical female psycho reaction and think like them. Just as we want them to see our side sometimes.
Havent't you ever seen the guy in the bar telling the bartender, "My wife doesn't understand me" They want to be understood. Not b**tched at. Get real ladies.