You do not know all the details about what was in the original email I sent when we returned from the weekend. The one where I said I was fed up. How do you know that I didn't say something in the email that indicated/hinted I was thru? So butt out. And where did you see that he called, emailed or told me in a letter that it was over? Why did he say it won't be a goodbye letter? More lies and stalls? Did you ever think for once there may be more to this story than you know about? He told me at least 20 times I am afraid you are going to dump me like you did back in Oh I know....he just did the disappearing thing, or he is doing the jerk thing you talk about where he just calls months later and I'm there ready to jump back in! That would be like me judging a situation in your romantic life without knowing everything. If you told me that you had a 5 hr long distance relationship and it was hard to maintain with that much distance and he didn't call for a while I would not assume he was "dumping" you without knowing everything first. And I am not in denial. Just because a couple has up and downs (I am not referring to just me, it could be any couple, it doesn't always mean the kiss of death) Try to be more objective. You do not know what went on between the two of us. And at this point you don't know whether I have moved on or not. All I am doing is trying to "sort out" So leave me alone, you are the meanest person I have ever met and you owe me an apology. Pick on someone else that has dated one of these guys. There are just as many other ones out there going thru the same situations with them. Try googling capricorn men...they are out there. Oh and by the way it took this person 1 to 2 years after he met me to call me in the first place, he said he couldn't get the nerve to call me and he was shy...so how do you know that his shy/backwardness doesn't factor into this? And he didn't have another person because I was around him at times and there was no one else around. There were times he had things to say to me and he could hardly get the words out. This is the last thing I am going to say and then I am leaving this board, because I have had enough of it....I do agree he is wrong for not calling....even after my nasty email, but this is the way this guy has been from the beginning. And that is not an excuse, it may just be his way. That could be why his relationships were short lived and he was unmarried at almost 40.