Posted by MareInfamePosted by SeajattPosted by Taureancosmic
I'm moving to Spain soon, and in touch with a Bullman from the place I'm moving to
I thought I really liked him, but not sure about him now In touch for 3 months now... He calls every week, we chat for a bit. Occasional message.
I asked what he wanted from me, he said nothing, he thinks I'm interesting, different to other women. We have romantic fantasy chat, about hanging out when I get there. He makes me laugh. He says he's never kept anyone on chatting for this long....But no real effort in getting to know me!
Cut loose?? There's a small part of me wondering if I should wait. A tarot reader friend said bull men only like to invest in something they are 'sure' of, and since I'm not there yet, he is keeping in contact. I know he chats to lots of other women. I know I'm only an option, but can't decide whether to wait and meet him in 2months.
Hmmmm? I'm Bull woman, I understand why he is not putting effort in, but it also irritates me!!!! Hahaha
There's a couple red flags there:
"Says I'm different to other women." This is pretty blatant misogyny, but it's also a feeler for someone experiencing insecurity. I'm guessing you responded positively because he also said:
"Says he's never kept anyone on chatting for this long." This is also feeds into that kind of insecure, pick-me sort of thing.
And he's also talking to other women?
It all seems fairly cut and dry to me, I will leave you to make your own interpretations about his intentions and motivations. All I will say is that I think you should be very slow in giving it up to him, if you were planning to.
Plus it’s only been three months. Words are meaningless, really. Nothing should be taken seriously at this point.
I just don’t get online relationships or long distance… just too much room for creating delusions and bull crap…
Crap, crap, crap, crap, crap … that’s how I read online flattery 😬🤷🏻♀️click to expand