I’m actually shocked so many people think it’s ok to show up uninvited to someone’s house.

Unless you were given a key and invited to walk in whenever that is not ok. Huge breach of trust and kinda creepy stalker vibes IMO. Huge trigger for me. Your home is your sanctuary. I’ve ended relationships for much less let alone a fuck buddy situationship.

Thinking your entitled to someone’s whereabouts and schedule because you ‘misplaced’ an item of yours in their space is wild.