Cheated on: yes
1) How did you find out?
He showed up with her
2) Did you stay with the other person and why/why not?
Yes, my first love and he made promises to change
3) Did you learn anything from it and, if so, what?
Yes, refer to the end
4) Do you feel like you might have played a part in what happened?
No, he was immature and just went with the feels
Cheaters:
1) why did you cheat?
Payback
2) Who did you cheat with (not looking for specifics) and why?
Slept with his best mate!
3) how did the relationship start? Did it end?
One random night at a party, 1 night only.
4) did you learn anything from it? If so, what?
Yes, some friends are shit friends!! Refer to the end..
I was young and immature, he was young and immature. Even though we thought we were old enough we weren’t.
I learned very young, how much it hurts to be cheated on and how much it hurts to cheat on someone. When you cheat on someone, it doesn’t come without consequences. You still have to face up to what you’ve done and how you’ve deeply cut someone that you love.
Most of all, I learned I don’t ever want to go through those hurts and those conversations ever again.