Posted by SassyKiwi Posted by LadyNeptune
The difference between fun and wifee material is how willing you are to baby your man. Are you gonna cook, clean, and wipe their ass? They are looking for a mom replacement lmao.
Shout out to the men who do know how to operate a washing machine. Y'all are a rare breed.
With marriages declining, it’s also increasingly common of girlfriends to cook, clean and do all these “wifely duties” without the ring. Even TikTok has a bunch of content encouraging the younger generation to stop until he puts a ring on it !! I personally barely cook and we get house cleaning services periodically.
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And no shade for women who want that stay at home life. Its not for me cause I want to be paid for my labor.
I was raised in a household that had that traditional gender roles outlook and it shows. Me and my sister are successful in life, we own property... we have careers, not jobs. While my brothers are living that struggle life month to month. Is it because they were taught that women's purpose in life is to cater to their needs? IDK. I keep telling them having your mom do your laundry is not cute when you hit 30.
I know the lesson was supposed to be that our purpose as women is to be a help mate. But nope, main character energy only. Now that I think about it, a lot of the childhood indoctrination backfired in a big way. They tried tho.