Posted by borednbeautiful Posted by sweethearts Posted by borednbeautiful Posted by sweethearts Posted by borednbeautiful
Or is it?
Have you ever heard this lame bullshit excuse and did you believe it? Or maybe it was you who used it on someone?
I have used it in the past, but I didn’t mean it that it’s not them. It is them but I didn’t want to hurt their feelings.
And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.
I can only hope this mercury retro brings him back. He looks at my pictures almost every day and likes every single one. We are still “friends”.
But neither one of us makes the first move. It’s a stand off, of love and pride. Leo sun vs Leo moon. It’s terrible.
My point exactly on why people ghost!
Your heard the excuse and even told the excuse but you’re telling yourself the lie. @Mystarshine
He didn’t ghost me. But he might as well.
Emotionally ghosted me.
And then karma got me pretty bad. Love of my life used it on me. Didn’t wanna commit, couldn’t, shouldn’t.
No he gave you an excuse so as not to hurt you and then you ask yourself why? Can I change what can I do to make him see me differently… you tell yourself the lie.
Just like you told someone an excuse because you didn’t want to speak the truth. Is there Anything he could have done to change your mind?
I genuinely wasn’t into those guys though. There was no chemistry, no feelings, no nothing.
We have all that and he still can’t commit? He never could commit to anyone. I was his only second relationship ever.
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He’s a noncommittal person. You’re not going to change that. Only he will “if” he feels a shift within himself.
