Posted by Hypnotoad Posted by borednbeautiful Posted by virgoOPPP Posted by borednbeautiful Posted by Sleepyquantro1 Posted by allrounder Posted by Sleepyquantro1 Posted by allrounder Posted by ImperfectStorm
Never mind my last question, I just scrolled back and found it. lol Oh I have told none of this to Scorpio, reading about how possessive or jealous they can be. And how much they aren't afraid to use revenge. No thanks.Scorps tend to give me a vibe of liar though because you guys can be quite secretive/not revealing the whole picture type of people. I understand Scorpio's trust issues with people tend to be fragile, but can't expect people to reveal their entire being whilst not revealing yours too. Then that triggers my trust issues. That's my policy.
If he has Scorpio sun AND Mercury? He probably already knows you’re seeing other people which is likely why he seems “secretive”. The hypocrisy between these 2 comments is… interesting. 🤔 lol
Oh not him. Not so far anyway. He's been quite open sharing stuff about his life. I just mean Scorpios in general tend to be quite secretive or not showing the full picture. So I kinda expect that even if any Scorpio seems open, they're probably still hiding more 😂
This last sentence resonates with me 💯 %
I had a scorp friend, for several yrs, and in that time he’s talked to me about a lot, even revealing something that he’s never told anyone else before
I thought we were close, until I found out that he had a wife for 5 yrs (while we were friends, well supposed to be friends), that he failed to tell me about smfh
This guy spent at least 3/4!days out of the week, coming to see me…talked about past women he’s dated, never once mentioned a wife
I found out from a mutual friend 😐
What a crappy dude, sorry you went through that, hope you cut him off now? That's the stereotypical secretive Scorpio energy I'm talking about though. You think you know, but do you really know?
So you Scorpios here can't really come at me about this behaviour, you know you're like this, it's okay you don't need to admit it * pats your heads * 😂
Yes, I did cut him off, but I cut him off before I found out. He did something that I didn’t like, about a yr and half or so, prior to me finding out, that I cut him off for.
He tried reaching out about 3 times after I cut him off, apologizing, saying how I was always a good friend to him and always there when he needed me 🙄…ironic right 😂.
I ignored the 1st 2 messages (for about a yr-each one like 6 months apart), then the responded to the last one, but just to get something off my chest, and left it at that, and ended the convo implying that I was done.
Then I found out about a yr later, that he was married for 5 yrs smh
Saw him once after, at the same mutual friend’s party, with his wife. We spoke, he shook my hand. I’m sure, at this point, he still didn’t know, that I knew about him being married.
Funny thing is he reached out to me last week (Sunday), asking how I was, saying he was just checking on me. I was gonna just ignore it but I wanted him to know, that I was aware of how shady he was, and that he was never my friend, bc friends don’t hide spouses, that people with ulterior motives do. Told him I don’t have anything against him, and hoped the best for him, but to not reach out again bc we weren’t and was never friends.
Never trust Scorpio’s “sincere” apology. They are masters at playing subtle mind games, all while maintaining plausible deniability. They are used to getting away with this because people don’t always notice. Then they play the victim and nice, sensitive guy.
Did you block him this time around?
idk about mind games but i feel like younger scorpios tend to see things in black and white or like the really unevolved ones (but maybe also coz fixed) which is kinda basic of them lol sorry but the older ones i've noticed are much wiser and can recognize grey areas.
like it kinda irks me sometimes when you tell them a story and they're immediately trying to sort you out into good person file or bad person file. it's super basic and kinda gross to me as a mutable.
but i still like them usually, just that people aren't indefinitely one thing at that one moment 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Many things irk me about them and I’m sure vice versa. I think they are not meant for mutables, or at least this mutable.
I simply would not have enough patience to figure out all of their moods and encrypted communication. And to constantly be on the lookout when they gonna stab me in the back. Granted, I only dated one but still no.
I don’t like the vibe. Too feminine.
But I think it’s okay for a Virgo. You girls are the nice girlfriends of the zodiac.
Yeah I think that's a pretty good angle. My moods if you don't 'feel' or understand them from instinct then don't bother trying to figure them out, it's actually kinda annoying and invasive someone trying to do that. I don't actually need my moods to be understood, just respected. As long as I'm not being unreasonable.
And for encrypted communication pretty much the same again, if you don't understand it then ehhh don't even try. I'm not sure I even do this anyway I try to be pretty clear about shit.
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That's actually something I've been practicing more lately, instead of being a Virgo therapist mother figure or something. Whenever someone around me has a mood, I just give them space to feel it out and process it. I don't interfere. They'll come to me when they're ready. Because I trust they'll tell me what they want, or if I can strongly intuitively feel something, I'll do it. Like giving free hugs etc. 🥰
