The last time I did that it was only 3 months and lasted nearly 20 years!!! Hahaha maybe I should consider only a month next time round!
Seriously, though if I'm not ready for the relationship to head towards the bedroom and relent under the pressure, which has happened. It doesn't really last very long. So if I know I want this person around for a while, I'll develop the relationship for several months before going there. Alot of men have only one thing on their mind and when they get that there is no need to do the extra mileage in establishing a connection and they then start looking around for someone else that takes their fancy.