Thanks phoenix - I notice the more the scorp spends time with me, the more he breaks down and shares a little more with me. We have not been "physical" - outside of kissing. He did share with me the "horrid" past he had with others, and then he said, "then I meet you" someone I feel confort, safe - haven't felt like that in years. The guy treats me with so much respect, care, concern, affection, says he likes me alot. I'm used to having my share of players in the past, so this is all new to me with a scorp. What's up phoenix? The first scorp above that I mentioned, is my ex b/f - present b/f, and I bonded tight with him too, just on the phone. I guess Scorps and cancers do have something nice amd mutual. Any more advice Phoenix? I like to read the responses.