Now, me being an Aries male, I am, of course, at this point, loving all of the attention that I am getting from Ms. Gemini. At the same time, I am "Mr. Nice Guy," and I don't want to keep hurting her feelings by continuing to tell her "no" when it comes to going on a little lunch date with her. Of course, a week later, she ended up asking me again and I skated around telling her "no," but thankfully something came up with work and I wasn't able to go on the particular date that she wanted us to go. Of course, then she gets upset again because the very next day, four other co-workers took me out to lunch. I only went because they were treating me to lunch as I am actually leaving for a new company next week and most are sad to see me go. After this lunch, she completely ignored me for the rest of the day and definitely seemed to be "pouting" about it
So then we get to this week, which has been my last full week with the company. She was dead-set on the fact that I would go to lunch with her yesterday, just the two of us. Of course, I can't bring myself to tell her "no," because I don't want to hurt her feelings, because she really is a sweet girl. But I just can't actually go on this lunch with her, just the two of us, because to me, that feels like a "date," and I certainly would go ballistic if my Aquarius lady did something like that to me. Instead of just telling her "no," which I should man up and do, I played along. Then, to get off the hook, a couple of other co-workers arranged to "kidnap" me for lunch, so to speak, and I went with them instead. I guess the third time was the real kicker, because Ms. Gemini was SUPER upset this time. She wouldn't speak to me for the rest of the day and I found out later from a friend of hers at the office, that it even made her cry.