Posted by libra sun
I used to think that relationships were supposee to be hard as it proved your love for eachother that you were willing to keep trying. Think once you accept the fact that you are prepared to die alone if. neccessary you can set the bar as.high as you like. I used to settle for the man I could live with (and being a Libra thats practically.anyone.with a pulse who smiles at me haha) but instead learnt to hold out for. the man I can not live without.
I learned you can both have your way without compromise if both of your "ways" are the same . I used to always say an easy relationship would be boring but we still have passion just in the bedroom where it should be instead of it manifesting into domestics!!
I love that you learnt these...took me many years to get to that point.
Personally it was more in the accepting of the fact that you are prepared to "live or die" alone