Understand the friendship thing.
Remember I hadn't met this guy and he was almost questioning my every move, I mentioned I was away with the girls this weekend and he sent several texts asking what I was doing...I didn't bother answering...found it quite intrusive and couldn't be bothered with it and the only thing he had going for him in my eyes was he was hot!
All I could think was what if we met...would he become a stalker??