This may be long, please bare with me I really need advice. I just want convey the whole story as best I can. I am an Aquarius.
My Aries and I first met 8-9 years ago through mutual friends we hung out with those friends regularly but never pursued each other. We both started dating other people and both ended up having a child in those other relationships. We didn't see each other for a very long time, and then happened to meet up at a mutual friends house (end of November 2012). We instantly clicked. After a week we met up again, and then a few days later were seeing each other everyday and after another few days he asked that we become a couple (mid December 2012). I told him that i would be leaving for school for a year in august, but if it didn't bother him i was totally willing to commit. he was very supportive of me going to school. He swore up and down that he had never cheated and never would, and i didn't need to worry about that because he was completely in love with me. We saw each other everyday and two months later he moved in with me. 4-6 weeks after moving in his son started spending a lot of time at my house with me and my daughter, I would watch him while my bf was working. He was always telling me how amazing I was and how much he cared for me. We talked about the future and how we would live in the country on a little hobby farm. He told me he would always be happy as long as he had me, my daughter and his son and how he couldn't wait for us all to live together. I was so happy and he was too. We spent all our free time together. The only problem was that he was unable to make me climax (but no one ever has). At first he took it as a challenge but I know that in the end it was bothering him. I thought our sex life was amazing, but I think that really bothered him, like he wasn't good enough. About two months (end of June) before I was suppose to leave he stayed out all night and didn't come home. He called at 7am and told me he had just gotten really drunk and decided to stay at the restaurant he works at and he was on his way home now. I believed him even though I was upset that he didn't call to let me know. After that things were different. We were still close an spending all our time together, but he started working very long hours and started staying after work for a few drinks. I asked him if he still liked me and he said he did that he loved me, but he was just tired from work, but we weren't doing anything after he'd get home