Popcorn is best for these kinds of occasions. Carry on folks =)
Posted by Impulsv I say something is wrong with a man who rather have a broken woman than healthy relationship. These men exist
HE MAY COME INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WHOLE, BUT INVESTING IN & SPENDING A LOT OF TIME WITH HER WILL RESULT IN HIM BEING OR LEAVING A BROKEN MAN HIMSELF.
Don't get me wrong, I commend the men who have the endurance & stamina to endure hardships in their relationships. Taxes, death & hardships with self & loved ones is guaranteed to happen to everyone.
However, it's not fair to say that I'd respect a male doormat if the truth is that I wouldn't respect a female doormat.
The 'captain save a hoe' hero complex sounds good & may even be the winning lottery ticket for women who refuse to work on, change and/or fix themselves, but realistically, so many people are only broken b/c of their superhero complex.
It's so much easier on the heart & mind when you find someone who had the courage to get their butter together before searching or signing up for love vs. spending the whole relationship teaching someone how to love themselves & me, and in the meantime not actually enjoying the luxury of enjoying the actual relationship!