The longer I slow my roll the more red flags. The faster I go, keep up because it means you possibly met your match. I need someone to keep up. But not like Sagittarius or Gemini.. right in the middle. Must be logical and balance.
If I am not comfortable I slow my roll and sit back and watch your actions..see irl it's different I am used to online 21 questions before I meet up in person. Now I only met one person irl that I have sat back and watched. It was cool untill I really started liking that person. Then I still ask 21 questions about stability and your past relationship status and stuff..lol.. then I can spot the red flags quicker than online..it's weird. I still get lied to both places.. It is really if you want to lower standards and go with the flow..and since I don't call you out on your bullbutter instead I distance myself alot and shut down.