Ok, so you guys know about that previous casual sex partner who I basically ignored and he said that he was "ending our friendship" because he had better things to do. Well last week he came back pouring out some stuff that I have no clue what to do with. Like, he just messaged me good morning and I messaged him back good morning, then I mentioned his thing about having something better to do and he started texting me with stuff like: 1. He is not himself and can't feel comfortable in his own life without me in it. 2. He loves me, but didn't want to ever show it. 3. He wants us to get closer. 4. He kind of went off the rails when I picked my previous boyfriend (the Aries) over him and he even called the dude by his name.
A little background about that last thing he mentioned....since he said from day one that he never wanted things to be serious, I told him when I first met my ex-boyfriend and let him know that things were going well. I updated him after a week to let him know that it looked like the Aries was someone that I wanted to attempt to have a relationship with if things were headed in that direction. I updated him after about 6 weeks to let him know that it looked like me and the Aries were going to become exclusive. That's when he popped up and was like, "No...don't see him anymore". I was like, "Um...yes, I'm going to continue to see him and I don't think that you're being fair by all of the sudden demanding that I stop seeing this guy when I told you about him when I first met him." Anyways....I saw the Taurus one last time before I actually made a clear choice to move ahead in the relationship with the Aries. What I did was saw the Taurus overnight, then I waited until later the next day just to text him and see if he was going to ignore my text...he did, so I figured that I better stick with the Aries who was very serious about me and never ignored a text from me. I explained this to the Taurus. He wouldn't go away. He kept offering to be my side piece, etc. Of course I declined. Then my relationship went south after about...5 months and I found out some critical information that the Aries hid from me. Long story short, I break up with the Aries and end up fooling around with the Taurus again, but I thought we were still keeping it casual. He was more involved, but not as involved as someone is while in a relationship. So, I basically hung out with him in between wanting to meet someone new...about 2 months. Then I met my Scorp and I've not seen the Taurus since. He only started messaging me and trying to call me (I won't answer his phone calls) like...mid/late July. I just figured that he was putting pressure on because he had nothing better to do and would go away. Nope. So this is the thing...now he's like...acting like...IDK...not like we're together, but things can't go that far. Like, I need to see him face to face and let him know that I just don't ever see myself being with him on a serious