Thanks but it's cool. He was a past casual sex partner and I'm in a relationship. He messaged me after no response for a few days and said something along the lines of ending the friendship, because he had better things to do. Then he came back a month later with what I posted above. It's all good. Besides, I also have a Cap admirer of 6 years who I'm cool with and he's not going anywhere until I get married. lol ha ha ha ha
Mind over matter...if you don't mind, it doesn't matter.