Posted by sultrykitty
You're older, he's older. The issue of practicality and commonality IMO, is much more important in mature relationships.
You've both experienced the drama, passion, and lust so now it's time to build a contented life with somwone stable.
I agree with you there and can't comment about this *particular* relationship but for me it would still be too soon to know whether what I said above is what's happening with you.
I hooe so, and yes--id you respect and like someone love *can* come later. Happens a lot in arranged marriages so I'm not going to knock that idea down.