Posted by tiziani
I mean if you're serious about not hurting her, try for new feelings. Not the same old as before. Someone losing feelings for you isn't the end of the world, but losing respect is a different story. If you just base your action on whether or not she'll give you the same old attention/affection as before (which led to screwing it up anyway) rather than doing something because you actually believe in it, she will lose respect for you. It comes off as insincere.
Aries live far more in their heads than people give credit for and right now you're just shadowing her thoughts, anticipating them, basing your moves off them. You become her coattails that way, congesting her thoughts and weighing her down, rather than being a sincere partner giving her something to look forward to.