So we've been in contact since the last post. Quite regularly. Initiated by herself and myself.
At times she's called a couple times over the weekend. Anyway last weekend I asked if she's free this weekend. She said not sure she'd let me know in the week. I didn't bring it up even though we spoke. Anyway today we speak and I mention it and she says what about tomorrow so I explain she says she's busy. I'm like cool.
A little later i sent a text just saying she could've told me as she didn't seem busy to make other plans.
She then kicked off. Demanded I apologise then told me she realised I was the monster she thought, I'm obsessive, we aren't proper friends and why would I drop my plans for some who treated me so appallingly. I said I didn't ask in the week because you said you'd let me know, but didn't and if I did she say I was being eager, which she treetrunking did.... Can't ducking win. I told her she reached out to me for a friendship so I can't be that bad, I remember everything about her, likes, dislikes, stories, family situation. Basically told her I'm not fighting to have her as a friend she knows how I feel and I'm sorry how things ended, and I didn't act accordingly but was grieving.
I said she's a free woman she can't do what she wants, if she wants to stay in touch fine, if not treetrunk it. It's my birthday in Sunday and did want to spend it with her but win some lose some.