I understand your point about cultural identification.
I don’t need someone to validate my standpoint. I just need someone to observe and understand it. That I guess is why I tend to not aide with CC and DMV in their argument.
In this day in age over half of marriages end in divorce. And we talk about black women standing beside us.... most people walk away now when shit gets bad enough for their tolerance. Most people as a whole are weak these days. Which is why I won’t settle until I find someone I enjoy and just enjoy it until I find someone I’m obsessed with lol