You can love vanilla ice cream, and its your favorite, you can add toppings to it, etc.
but sometimes you see caramel, chocolate, strawberry shortcake... and you want to sample it... and its good, or bad, or ehhhh, but you will always love vanilla.
and what's the big deal about sex outside of a monogamous relationship? There is no cheating involved. why is it that some woman ASSUME that just because a man is nice to her and treats her well he wants to be with her?
Why don't you just ask the damn question instead of making us look like we are jerks.... I don't need to love you to bone you. I'm not going to love you until after I have sex with you...and its going to take a damn while for it to actually happen. its just facts.