Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by hellosaggy

Posted by RooSagicorn

Posted by hellosaggy
I can be with someone I’m not interested in or they aren’t geo located near me. If I find her hot I’ll flirt but I can flirt and not be interested... well unless I’m drunk.

But normally I can’t have female friends because stuff tends not to stay purely platonic.

So if you friendzone someone like the Cap, what does that mean. Do you give up on her? Do you still do sweet things like bring her meds? Or is that reserved for potential dates?

I put her on a lower priority. I wouldn’t ghost, but my desire to hang out with her would be overruled by others now.

Would I have left work to do the med run? Probably not. Would I have checked in on her and maybe did it when I had free time.. maybe yea, but she has other friends that can look out for her too.

I have terrible habit of putting my interest in the center of my universe and they become a high priority.

Im Not close to people I’m not with/boning unless we have history, and in this case cap and I don’t have any. I’m in my own world so unless you are in my orbit I tend to decrease my attention significantly.

You know us Sagittarius folk. We will do anything for people we care about. I can’t have people around I get no benefit from and I’m constantly doing for.

Yeah I know. What if you had history, and there was a falling out due to circumstances & she moved on? Would you stay friends cuz you care? Would you be able to leave your feelings out of it and just have the friendship? I’m comparing to another fire sign not a Sag.. actually then there is my ex husband who will still do anything for me, he’s a fire sign too. But it’s not about wanting to get together but about a long ass history. That ones more complicated.

I’m to the point I need to not be friends, not because i can’t but I don’t think he can. But the ex I just need to not let him do things for me. Unless it’s related to our kids.

I’m just trying to get the guy perspective.. it helps to answer my questions

Short answer ... no .

If I still want you my ego won’t let me

That’s what I’m thinking but yet he’s been swearing we’re friends for the last year 😡
I was just doing the Sag hoping. I mean to be fair, he tries but then he slips up..

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