Posted by Leo188881Posted by Biboroon
Unhappy leos walk away when you dump them. They don’t have the courage to break up with someone and when a partner does it for them, they just let go.
I agree with that but I would easily dump someone and tell them to go f themself if they really hurt me and prove they don't care about me.
But with the getting dumped, my Aqua guy wasn't making me his #1 priority because his work is #1 and i struggled to understand why I wasn't the center of his universe lol. I thought it meant he didn't like me enough so I told him to just be honest and tell me if he doesn't like me instead of stringing me along. He didn't know wtf I was on about but he's awesome and works at fixing things instead of choosing to walk away. In a way, I was trying to get dumped if he doesn't like me instead of dumping him. Maybe I need a lot of reassurance or i feel unloved but if i want a relationship to end, i will try to get them to end it and if they don't, then I won't leave them because you can't give up on someone that doesn't give up on you.
Maybe it's the loyalty thing that makes us stay too... you make a promise or commitment to someone, and you feel like you're not allowed to break it because your word means something and you can't give up on them.click to expand