Curses

Is it possible to inadvertently curse someone?

Sorry for the long post and I know this sounds crazy but I think I did just that. I've always felt that I was a bit sensitive but never did anything to tap into my power. In the past, I have noticed that when someone really hurt me, bad things happened to them. For example, my ex father in law was an alcoholic and lived upstairs for us for a short time and he always have me a hard time. After one particular incident I wished something bad would happen to him and a few hours later he fell down the stairs and spent 2 days in the hospital. I can name dozens more similar instances.

This current incident is really bothering me. I broke up with the man that I believe to be my tf on 12/31/15. We had some offs and ons since then but since June 1 things have gotten ugly. There is another woman in his life. Without going in to much detail she is blackmailing him and ruining us. I do not have good feelings towards her and I have been really hurt and angry towards him.

Since June 1, our communication has been limited but he is falling apart. His health is bad, he has been hospitalized several times with severe anxiety attacks, he has lost too much weight and he lost his job. This woman has also fallen ill. A couple weeks ago he told me that someone is after him because he hears the screaming in his dreams.

His 11 year old daughter started waking up every night screaming that someone is after her and it feels like someone is stabbing her heart. This morning he went to see an old country woman that can see stuff like that and she told him that someone put a curse on everyone in the house. I don't know if I did that but if I did I want to make it better. I don't want to hurt anyone, especially not him or his daughter.

How do I know if it was my fault? If it was, how do I make it right?

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Could be law of attraction, maybe you've put some negativity on them. Maybe start trying to send positivity towards them and really hoping good things for them

When I'm hurt and angry sending positive vibes seems impossible.

I would never wish anything bad on his little girl though, no matter how hurt I was. I don't even know if it's my fault but I wish I can fix it.

Damn 😐

That's the most horrible feeling one can live with..

Dont blame yourself okay! 😢 ..these things keep happening.. They're part of life (falling ill..having nightmares).

They were probably sick many times all their life before you knew them so, dont blame yourself. It's probably coincidence.

See, when these things cannot be proven in a tangible or rational way, it's better to not think of such things and live in unreasonable guilt.. Especially when there's nothing you can do about it other than pray for their well-being. But don't trap yourself in that guilt.

See..you are feeling like you wish you could do something to alleviate their situation, that's all is enough to send them positivity or good vibes! 🙂

Posted by RumiL
See..you are feeling like you wish you could do something to alleviate their situation, that's all is enough to send them positivity or good vibes! 🙂

Thank you for that. It does make me feel a little better.

Maybe it's just coincidence.

A friend stabbed me in the back once in an ugly way and I hated her for it. I haven't spoken to her since but her husband is my ex bill so I hear the updates. A few weeks after she turned on me she lost her job, then her dad died,then she had a fall and tried to get disability but lost her case, then her husband had an affair and she just found out that her 4 year old is severely autistic.

I attributed it to her bad karma but I never wished basin her father and definitely not the kid who is kind of my nephew even though I haven't seen him since his first birthday.

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Could be law of attraction, maybe you've put some negativity on them. Maybe start trying to send positivity towards them and really hoping good things for them

When I'm hurt and angry sending positive vibes seems impossible.

I would never wish anything bad on his little girl though, no matter how hurt I was. I don't even know if it's my fault but I wish I can fix it.

What rumiL said. You wanting better things for them means enough. Are you still involved with the guy?

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Kind of. We broke up on 12/31/15 but have been back and forth. He is in an ugly predicament and I'm so angry at him for the way he is handling it. We do love each other and I know it will work out on the long run though but these last few months have been awful

I thought of Mojo Jojo

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I thought of Mojo Jojo

? Is that someone that can help ?

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Posted by RumiL
See..you are feeling like you wish you could do something to alleviate their situation, that's all is enough to send them positivity or good vibes! 🙂

Thank you for that. It does make me feel a little better.

Maybe it's just coincidence.

A friend stabbed me in the back once in an ugly way and I hated her for it. I haven't spoken to her since but her husband is my ex bill so I hear the updates. A few weeks after she turned on me she lost her job, then her dad died,then she had a fall and tried to get disability but lost her case, then her husband had an affair and she just found out that her 4 year old is severely autistic.

I attributed it to her bad karma but I never wished basin her father and definitely not the kid who is kind of my nephew even though I haven't seen him since his first birthday.

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what's your chart like?

i notice that, if people do bad to me, bad things happen to them.

i try to not bother with people, so they don't have to deal with me much. i don't get along with many people, and the ones i do, i have healthy relationships with.

but in the past, a lot of bad things happened to people that were close to me who did bad things to me.

i just think that they did it on their own you know??

so like what you said, they were projecting their bad/evil selves to you, hurting you, and they were going through bad things in their lives.

so they are kind of like in this blindness where everyone sucks, so they treat you bad. If they do that, it's them who is suffering and the more you suffer in the mudpit and don't get up and brush yourself, the more you will fall into quicksand.

Scorpio sun

Aries moon

Libra Venus

Rising Gemini/Cancer cusp

Mars Cancer

Mercury Scorpio

Trying to remember the rest off the top of my head but everything else is Scorpio and Aries with a bit of Leo and Sag

What planets and houses would be most relevant in this situation? I can pull them back up.